I'm Not A Mother, But I Am Their Mother...

I spend my time mostly with guys :) I love them, don't get me wrong, but I always have to "mother" them. I'm constantly asking them if they have this or that. We went to the movies one time and I had to make a check list for them. "Do you have your money, wallet, keys, coat, shoes?" Yes I actually had to ask one where his shoes were! In winter - In MICHIGAN! He was going to go barefoot. When they come over they expect that I've made cake, brownies, cookies, or cupcakes for them. I don't mind, I love baking, what I hate is that they act as if I AM their mother - or older sister.

A couple of my friends actually aren't allowed to hang out because it always causes trouble! Not just for other people but for themselves, but they always want to hang out! I have to constantly remind them about the dangers and be the responsible one.

Just once I would like to be the immature one who can be careless! I would like for someone to take care of me!

^^^Not really, just frustated.
cdailey cdailey
22-25, F
Aug 23, 2011