Broken Heart

I miss having someone in my life to love. I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago and have been very depressed ever since. She was cheeting on me with some dude from coolum beach. It makes me so angry because i treated her like a princes, took her out everywhere brought her everything and gave her my heart im so shatterd. How can someone  thats supposed to love u do something like this!!!!! Oh well i just had to get it of my chest

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9 Responses Mar 14, 2009

Yes I feel for you..same boat here...

That's pretty tough to deal with, but they say things happen for a reason and when one door closes another one opens. There is a special person out there who is meant to be just for you.

that's ashame... its always the nice guys like you that are the true gentlemen but get ruined by horrible girls and then you feel like you shouldnt be so nice the next time around. I hope that void in your heart will become filled with a really nice woman, but in the mean while i advise you to not become a total jerk like all the guys that were once hurt, but also be more careful with how much you put yourself out there. Good luck

how can love b so painfull. boogles my brain. hug x

Stumbled on your story. How you holding up? My boyfriend of 7 years who I loved deeply ended up being gay and it broke my heart. It's been almost a year and I'm still hurting. Hope you're feeling better.

It’s an ache that doesn’t seem to leave..Happy occasions dull it for a while..but the thoughts and feelings come back easily. I loved someone and promised that I’d love him always. He cheated after a few years of being together. He’d verbally abuse me as though I was the one who was doing wrong. I left him. It hurt for a year. Now I just think about him every now and then. I haven’t been able to replace him…that empty feeling lingers. I’m seeing someone right now…and he’s made it clear that we have no future. He won’t follow me in this world and I’m not invited to follow him. I haven’t broken it off honestly because I’m frightened of that empty feeling consuming me the way it did a year ago. I’m disgusted with myself for being a coward. I can honestly tell you that though you feel lonely you are not at all alone. I wish you the very best. ((HUGS))

Hope you feel better.

Hope you feel better.

It's never easy to lose someone you love, particularly to another person who has replaced you. <br />
My heart goes out to you because I'm sure it's hurting you to be rejected., but I have 3 sons who have gone through the same thing & I always tell them there are plenty of nice girls in the world just waiting to meet a nice guy like them, and they always have. One is now married to a wonderful beautiful intelligent girl, and the other one has been together with a very nice girl for 5 yrs now and they seem to be pretty happy with each other, just not ready for marriage. <br />
So hang in there, you might even meet someone very nice here, even if it's just to flirt around with until you feel a little better about yourself. I'm sure it will do wonders!<br />
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(And stop thinking of her, she's not worth it, just be glad you weren't married when she did that!)