He Doesn't Touch Me Anymore
He used to hug me, kiss me, hold me, rub my feet & shoulders, etc. Lately my fiance hasn't been doing these things. He pulls away when I try to kiss him. I asked him about it. He said he thought we were far enough into our relationship to feel "comfortable" so why should he do these things? I was crushed. I felt so sad when he said this. To me, rather you have known each other for two years or two hundred.....why would you stop touching each other? I try to continue to show him affection by touch even though he doesn't reciprocate. I have let him know that this is important to me. Although he didn't say it outright, he made me sound like I was "needy" and that I should focus on other things instead. I don't know how I am going to handle this in the long run. I love being touched.