My Husband Looked At A Picture Of Me And Actually Said "eww" Tonight
There has been many times during my marriage
of 3yrs that I have felt unwanted. Tonight beats all of those nights. The hubby has one of his friends over and they're drinking so I guess his "true feelings" are easier to express. We've hit a dry patch sexually here lately and I've been going out of my way to make him happier and make him want me. He wants to travel an approx. 9hr drive one way to see his family, I said ok. He wants the house in better shape, I've busted my *** to keep it lookin good while taking care of our son.....etc the list continues on. And flirting with him today and trying to say all the right sexy things seemed to be working. I really thought he was flirting back and wanting me... I was playing around on the computer and showed him a pic of me w/ just a lil makeup and my hair styled differently (but you can definately still tell it's me) and he actually said "eww"...........I feel so disappointed and hurt and unwanted. I just don't know if we're going to make it and I just dont know if I want to make it work anymore. It just seems pointless sometimes, but I do love him and I do love the family we have together. What do I do?