I'm Not Weird...

Today I was at a cafe with some friends, and somehow we started talking about dates. Then one of my friends found out that I'm going out with a boy online. He was like "whaaaat? I would never... ugh"

Okay, seriously, this is why I hate talking about it with other people... yes I LOVE him. And YES, I know it's not a good way to know somebody, I know there are lots of people who post fake profiles, I know it's weird that I have a boyfriend who cannot hug me when I'm sad... etc.

I hate all those looks I get when I talk about it. I hate them all. You know what???? I didn't choose it to be this way. Surprisingly, I haven't always dreamed about having a boyfriend who is million kilometres away :P It simply happened.

You know what? I just refuse to give up this relationship just because he's away... *shrugs* he knows me like no one does, and he helps me a lot when I have some problems... gosh, am I really that weird that I'm dating some amazing guy? even though he's far far away?

I just hate when people judge when they don't know anything behind it...

nicerain nicerain
18-21, F
7 Responses Mar 13, 2009

This is actually a comment to PinkPantha...<br />
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You should try and tell people that you had an online relationship if they ask. Because now that you're both together I think that shows that you two were so faithful and caring for one another that even though that physical love wasn't there you two were so deeply in love it didn't matter. And when people who look down on you finally realize that I think they'll come to admire you as a couple. As for the dirty stares, I can see nothing dirty about an online relationship...if they think that that's just plain stupid...they're probably jealous :D But just be more open, it's difficult, I know because I'm in one right now too, but try...people will eventually take you seriously and respect you. :)

Yea, it's a really ****** feeling. We live together now, but I admittedly hate when people ask how we met. It feels like people look down at me for it, and I hate that. I lied for awhile about it just to avoid the dirty stares and put downs, I'm trying to become more open about it but it's just so hard to do when people are so negative about it.

Yea, it's a really ****** feeling. We live together now, but I admittedly hate when people ask how we met. It feels like people look down at me for it, and I hate that. I lied for awhile about it just to avoid the dirty stares and put downs, I'm trying to become more open about it but it's just so hard to do when people are so negative about it.

I agree. People just haven't experienced the feeling of knowing that even though your special someone is miles away you still feel for them deeply. <br />
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Don't let people like that get you down Nicerain...they just don't understand. As long as you're both happy (bf and you) nothing else should matter :)

yea :(

Yeah...<br />
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Annoying!

..becasue they cant understand it... as have never experienced it... I know how much annoying it is.. :(