I Think I Married Him Too Soon...
I think I married my husband too soon...my husband and I met about 4 years ago and dated long distance (opposite sides of the country) before we got engaged. Our entire dating, engagement and a year of our marriage was spent long distance due to our jobs of being in the military. We talked on the phone every day during our times apart and finally moved in together last year. So instead of being married for almost 3 years we've really only been married for just over a year and a half upon living with each other. When I met him, I knew that he would treat me better than anyone EVER has, love me more than anyone EVER has and be a wonderful husband to me. That fact still remains true to this day!
BUT, we have come out of the honeymoon phase and my feelings have changed. I think at this point I'm realizing all the differences between us and the things that really make me tick, annoy me and frustrate me. We are both absolute polar opposite people in about every single way. It seems as though we are just friends co-habitating. We don't do alot of things together because he's happiest at home with the dog, watching or blogging about sports and playing video games and I'm happiest being out and about doing whatever. As a result, I am not attracted to him anymore which is obviously posing to be quite the problem.
I have communicated my thoughts and confusions with him and he's of course terrified that I'm going to give up. I haven't..yet..but I'm very confused of my feelings for him. I have made an appointment with a counselor for some help too.
I wonder if I was ever "in love" with him in the first place...or if I even know what love is exactly.