Hope Slowly Fades To Black

Everyday, I long to have someone who'll love me. No girl has ever fallen for me and I'm starting to wonder if anyone ever will. Everyone keeps telling me that I'm such a great guy, and smart etc. If it's true, Then why am I tormented every time I see a couple. Surely someone would've fallen for me? But no, instead I'm alone every day, hoping someone will one day love me.
DGSteele DGSteele
26-30, M
5 Responses Apr 16, 2012

Aww I think I would fall for you! ;D You seem good-looking and sweet :)

Thanks. :)

If you still need help, then i'd like to say try to engage yourself in lots of activities and talk to strangers. For example, if you see a pretty girl in the park, don't be afraid to talk to her. Just make sure you are genuine, and ask her name, invite her to go have some coffee or whatever. That way you open yourself up to more people :)

Ive done that. So many times. So many girls. But none ever like me that way. I dont expect them to, because that would be a selfish and wrong motive, but it JUST doesnt happen.

Aww.. That's too bad. I'm happy to hear that you are feeling better though :)

You are still quite young. I went through exactly the same stage as you when I was your age (I am 31 now). Girls didn't like me enough to want to date me or be my girlfriend, and I never even used to score at parties. It was only when I ditched my group of friends, made new friends, and started putting myself first, then I got success with women. And when that success came, it was like opening the floodgates. 10 years on, women still find me very attractive, whereas all the 'hot' guys and girls who used to look down on me and make fun of me look so old and well past their best!! Good Luck, you will find your own success...

Well, I can definitely believe that because, a day after I wrote this, something I never expected to happen, happened. So yeah. This is almost in the past.

You don't say whether you have an active social life, you say every day you're alone. All I can say is it's not good to fret over what you haven't got, this will just make it more likely that you will give out desperate or negative vibes. Just work on your self-esteem, if you come across as friendly and confident, you're far more likely to attract interest. Have your own interests, if you don't have any, get some, find out what makes you tick. I promise you this will give you a buzz, and you will be much happier and girls will find you attractive and interesting because you're your own person and know what you're about. I'd be interested to hear from you in the future to see how you're getting on, take care x

Thanks. I do have an active social life actually, but I completely understand what your saying. It's only been a day and I feel a whole lot better. I'll be sure to keep you updated on whats happening

I'm so glad you're feeling much better, and I look forward to hearing from you at some point, take care x

Never give up looking... You'll find her.. and sometimes you don't have to look far away cause who cares for you will be around you.