I finally had my devorce seven years ago at the age of 50, I have had some good times since but have not found the nice lady of my dreams. I have concluded that she may not exist and I am now happy with living on my own, but fortunatly I have a close family. Congratulations to you who have been recently divorced but do not expect a 'quick fix', be selective with new people as quite a few of my friends are now contemplating devorce for the second time!. I wish you well with your new life, take it from me that being on your own is liberating but it can take a long time in order to find a decent, nice type of person for a partner. Do not worry about getting older as I am sure that love can be found at any age, even though I have not found it yet.