Want To Learn And Try More

I have recently been introduced to this lifestyle ad find myself quite excited by it. I've been needing something more for sometime now and am very interested in trying something new. am looking for people to help me find my way and give me more information.

blueflutterbies blueflutterbies
41-45, F
2 Responses Feb 26, 2010

The best advice i can give is find someone you can trust, I agree with the previous comment (6), find out what works for you.

What do you need to know, darling? I've been into the life for about 15 years now, have interviewed, researched, and written about it, and play online too (yes, it's possible, though nowhere near as intense as real life.)<br />
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I can tell you a few things right off the bat: #1 It's ALL about the people you do it with, your master in this case. He's going to be closer to you than any vanilla lover, and you have to be totally comfortable with them .<br />
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#2, #3, #4, #5: --See #1<br />
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#6 Beware of doms who say their way of doing BDSM is the only way. There's as many approaches to BDSM as there are people practicing it, and you've got to find what works for you. Dom's take themselves WAYYYY too seriously.<br />
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#7 Have fun.