I think this is the most important thing in a relationship. My boyfriend recently lied only for me to find out later. He stated that he did it to protect me...make me happy.....that was not the case by no means.....it hurt me so much. It has also made me have so many thoughts I wish I never had. Is he tellng the truth now....has he done this sort of thing before and I never found out?....will he do it again.....does he really want me happy.
If you value your relationship, please always be honest...it hurts way too much when you are not. And for all who are honest....many praises go out to you. Pat yourself on the back...you deserve it