Like the Monty Python song says, I "Always look on the bright side of life". There are many people out there though, that see the lemons and not the lemonade. I believe that we train our minds to see what we want to see. Everything is subjective. We all look at the negative side of things sometimes, but in order to not live a depressed life, we have to look at what good can come from any situation. There is always some benefit to any thing that happens, no matter how negative it may seem on the surface. I know people that just love bad mouthing anyone that they know. It sucks to be around them when they are talking about coworkers or family members and they have nothing nice to say. These are the same people that wonder why no one likes inviting them to go and do stuff.