I find relationships frustrating when the mom is too involved. My ex had an issue with his mom acting as if she was the girlfriend. Constantly texting and calling him asking what he was doing that night, who he was going to be with, when he would be back, would he like to go to a dinner and movie with her and on and on. It was constant! They shared a bank account so she would look at the account daily to see what he spent his money on and would b*tch him out if she didn't agree with his purchase. Finally I told him breastfeeding is for babies its time to be a big boy. That comment didn't go well...needless to say we are no longer together. I wouldn't have made this comment if it wasn't for the fact that he never stood up for himself and allowed her to treat me and him like dirt. Ugh the topic still irritates me...I need a man who is more mature than my 4 yr old!!!!