Oops

Apparently I do. But it’s just the way I speak to guys. I’ve always had more guy friends and they’ve usually been much more closer (emotionally) than girls. I’ve never bothered though. I learnt how to deal with them. I am not as serious with guys as I am by girls. I guess one can say I’m more “playful.” I‘ll be extremely sarcastic, but then come-up with a totally random, and perhaps nunu, comment that acts as water on a fire.

I don’t like hugging and many times my friends think something is going on, or I’m trying to get something going one, when I hug a guy. My friends say as soon as I speak to a guy I’m either extremely shy and blush like a cherry tomato, or I appear very self-confident and almost as a know-it-all. But usually the last one is for guys I know for a while.  I pay a lot of attention to people. I listen and I ask many questions. For a guy it is exactly the same. I try to avoid having the conversation land on me, so I keep asking questions and finding out about the guy.

I'm cocky around them. I annoy and irritate guys till the cows come home. It’s just me. If I like a guy, I shall tease him. In some or other way, I’ll get at him. And I don’t mean “if I like a guy,” as in possible boyfriend in the future or something like that, I just mean even as a friend. From looks to hobbies to food to misspelling or pronunciation, to clothes… I latch onto something and use it. If I do not make fun of a guy someway, he’s screwed. It probably means I don’t like him (which means I’ll make his life Hell) or I really couldn’t care less about him. I won’t say I’m always mean in my teasing… that’s only for people like… well, miserable/grumpy/egotistic ones…. Sometimes it’s the most stupid jokes ever, but use it I shall use it.
 
I’ve been accused of flirting so many times already that I’ve lost count. And it’s pretty stupid. I’m just much more open to guys and… meh, energetic(?) around them. I think I’ve actually tried to flirt 3 or 4 times and they were all CRASH and BURNs. It’s not something I do consciously, but apparently I’m always doing it. Which, is weird, since I have no intention of any relationships of more than friendship. I’m pretty content having amazing guys friends like I have.