Thank You CuppaI will spare you lot the details of the convo.
"Just tell the world to **** off and take care of you lil one"
Best advice I've heard so far.
Somewhere along the way, i forgot to take care of me. Cuppa just reminded me. That's what makes you realize who actually cares about you. The ones that will tell you the truth and support you no matter what. The ones that will tell you when you're ******* up. The ones that will tell you that its ok to put yourself first. The ones that do not mind if you take care of what you need to take care of. The ones that remind you, that you're not expected to "fix" everything.
The ones that know you well enough to know, that you aren't "ok" even if you have spent the entire day pretending to be "ok".