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I Found Nude Pictures of Me In My Sons Room!

I am the proud mother of 4 children. 2 boys and 2 girls. I am a homemaker and I was clearning up my 17 year old son's room when I moved his matress and discovered and envelope. In the envelope I discoved pictures of me..nude pictures. It is as if my son has been spying on my in the shower, the bathroom and my room. In some I was topless..some was of my butt and some was everything!

I am not sure what to do. I am pretty sexualy active but I have not had anything like this before where it dealt with my own son.

Any advice? Should just let it go? Should I confront him?

CharlotteMiller CharlotteMiller 41-45, F 52 Responses Jul 14, 2008

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Go and **** your son.enjoy

Although this is a OLD posting I wud of said if your both interested in being naked together or showing the other how you both are , I wud of said try showing him yours stuff ask him if he wud of LOVED to touch or even sucking and then you try touching him as well. Try to be ALONE & IN PRIVTE ! Then you can ask him about sex and see if he is interested .

i say u **** the **** out of him

I think you should ask him if he is really interested in your body if he would like to see it up close. I think it is healthy for your son to experience a woman 's body first from his mother if it excites him. Should you want to get more actively involved, make sure he I a equally interested. Sex with you might be fun for both of you.

If you confront him, think about how humiliated he will be confronted with the the fact that his mother knows that her son is ************ to her. I think that you should first take steps to protect your privacy better such as using a safe to lock up sensitive documents etc.

I know your privacy has been violated and you are freaked out because your son is ************ to his own mother but I want to assure you that this type of thing is common with young boys just discovering their sexuality, they will do things like spy on their sisters or mothers showering etc. but they eventually grow out of it once they get a girlfriend and finally discover how to appropriately channel this sexual energy which is new and mysterious to them.

You should talk to him about respecting your privacy in general without being too specific about the pictures. If you find that your son continues to constantly have issues in other areas of his life where he is being impulsive or having other behavioral problems or learning issues I would suggest you consult a counselor so he or she can guide you on how to address these things.

I had the same thing. I have one boy aged 17 at the time. I confronted him. Now I have a great sex life and he takes photos of me whenever he wants. Enjoy its great.

When I was 37 and my boy was 17 and at collage. I found photos of me in his bedroom from our holiday.
Now when I look back I think that it was all my fault that this happened.
I had a really good body and I was always told that I was very good looking. My husband always liked me to show my body off by wearing short skits, see though tops and G strings all my bikinis were very small and when wet, you could see everything. He fantasized about me having sex with other men.
I did not mind I like men looking at me and it would turn me on.
On holiday we would always hire a privet villa with swimming pool. If some over looked our pool I would walk around topless or nude, which would excite my husband knowing someone was watching me.
My son would never come out into the sun but stay inside all day, saying it was to hot for him.
This one holiday we where overlooked by a man in his mid 40s his wife had gone back to England for two weeks.
On our first day my husband saw him watching me, so he hid himself and watched the man watching me, I walked around and my husband gave me instructions on what to do and told me what the man was doing. Soon I was walking around nude and bending over, what a turn on.
I was bending over when the man shouted to me, I stood and saw him standing by our fence, I walked over to him and could see he was nude and what a **** he had about 9ins and it was rock hard.
We talked for a some time about nothing and all I did was look at his **** I asked him to come over for a drink that night at eight, he side he would.
I told my husband who got so excited he took me right then.
That afternoon my husband went up for a sleep, so I walked around by the swimming pool nude again, the man called me over and asked if I would join him for a drink, I side yes and went into his kitchen with him, both of us nude. I don't know what was side at this point but I found myself sucking his **** and being bent over the table and ****** by him, I have never known a man to come so much, he came twice in me and once in my mouth.
I went back to my husband and told him, that night I ****** both of them together. The the rest of our holiday the man ****** me when ever he wanted, I love anal sex and I found out that my husband did too. I would suck my husband and the man would **** him at the same time.
When we got back from holiday I found photos of me and the man in my sons room. That night I went into his room nude to confront him, I sat on his bed and before I could say anything he was feeling my ****, I bend down and sucked him I then let him **** me. I now have a great sex life, my husband as watched me **** with other men, he likes them to *** in me so he can lick it out and get ****** at the same time and my son ***** me every day. Up until now I have had sex with 10 men my husband has had twenty six men **** him. I love sex and next week I am going to have my first gang-bang, I will let you know all about it.

Yes, confront him in the nude with a dripping wet vagina.

Have sex with him he will stop.
Make sure you will be pregnant.

He wants to make love to mommy. It won't hurt anybody.

this post is over 5 years now , so he's must be +18 now.
I think most readers are very keen to know what have you done during past all these years.

You should go and talk to your son about his feeling for you. Talking to him will give you direction for what to do in future with him, have a happy life??

My age is now 74 years old. But I can remember back to the age of 12 -21. While working out in the fields. I had a full time erection. A few of the woman talked about wanting to take their tops off. But never did. This was in the early 50's. I do remember the first time I saw a nude woman. I could not take my eyes away from her. I always dreamed of seeing my mother nude. But never did. I do know it would have helped me.

I've found nude photos of my mom in my dads room when they were seperated. And when mom caught me ************ with her panties she had sat with me and talked about being good to your self and she asked if I had any other secrets I told her about the photos. She was ok with it. But after dad passed unexpectedly a year later she gave an envelope with some of her in lingerie. Not sure why but I didn't ask.

It is so normal for a boy. Not only is he hormonal but curious. Let him have his fun. I did it as a boy. Also nudity is normal in my house

Walk in to his room NAKED when he least expects it and say "GO ON, HERE'S YOUR OPPORTUNITY TO TAKE MY NAKED PICS WITH MY KNOWLEDGE" see his reaction.

Obviously you will shock him and tell him you know about them and they are to be given to you and destroyed.

He should never do it again.

Let us know how it goes.

you can just let him take your nude picture

Its much more common than people might think. I'm hetero but I get so aroused by my mother's big bras. I become erect when I touch them and wear them, and I would love to see my mom in her bras. I also want my mom to see me **********.

Let your son see you fully naked. It is all part of the learning process.

Please lett your son to have the sexy naked pics from you! It is very normal thing to do at his age, you can help your son showing him your naked body to him, and you can give him a very good sexual lesson about the female body and all his secrets! You have some fun doing this to your own son, please lett me now what happened? ;o)

just go with the flow if ur son wants u so give it to ur son give it a try

Pose for him

I think you're a little turned on by this situation

go for sex with ur son

It is a fact that a boy will fantasize about his mum and girl her dad at some point in his/her life so I wouldn't worry too much. Hope this helps

Don't worry about it,he loves you an fantasize about you as long if he doesn't act on it.

Let it go talk wit him ask why he takes pics of u n wat he thinks of u try ****** tell him u luv him n he can't tell any1

Does it bother you?

**** him

I would love to watch you have sex with him.

heres what ya do just dress really sexy & walk around the house show some legs<br />
when ya seat down,, make sure hes inthe room then do some erotic tease's by runing ya hand up your leg from ankle to knee then slowly stand up & ask ya son what he thinks about your outfit<br />
then bend over in front of him pullig ya dress or skirt up showing some thighs<br />
then walk over to ya son & slowly kneal down in front of him & run yer hands up his leg <br />
& in your sexy voice say to him you like what im wearing....he'll say what ever then say to ya son well why dont you take a picture of me then.......& just stand up slowly walk away sexy like & his face will be soooooo red he be like damn mom found the pics......& then he'll beat off to your pics every night ........he took nude pics of ya so he seem ya already so why not just tease him give him somethig to really dream about at night & inthe shower.......

Let it go...

real thing is better then pics just sayin should let him experience it

This is disgusting, I cant believe there are so many people like this out there. Sort of terrifies me, actually...

chris I love you! you can help me a lot with my issue

sorry just4play, but you are outvoted on hee and in the mail I am getting.seems this is quite common and encouraging him is agreed on by about 95% of my mail.

I think everyone has given great advise, I would just say that the kid is just being a kid, he is just excited about see a naked women and probably jerks off to the pictures.

d21 what a great idea!!!!<br />
see what he says!

I'm adding to your story, because it strikes home for me.<br />
since I updated my remarks, I have had notes from other girls who went through a similar experience. each one agreed that letting him see you nude was a good idea, watch you ********** was a good idea and so on. you do realize you are now one step away from teaching a young man, or men, about sex! <br />
believe it or not, there is a lot of pleasure in doing this, having young men get so excitd over seeing you nude that they shake, and when they touch you, well, all I can say is, you could be in for a lot of fun!!!!!!!

now theres an idea for you, ask him if he wants to go naked in the house, he might surprise you!<br />
you both could get naked together!<br />
if you do, hug him a lot!

ah hell! he's 17, likely 18 now, ask him if he wants to see you nude. <br />
if he has shown your pix around school, you are now a MILF, like or not. I liked it! it was fun when he had his friends over, and I knew they were hoping to see me nude!<br />
and you know what, when they came over and I "accidentally" let them see me nude, it was fun! it wasn't long before he would have friends over, and I would entertain with food and pop, wearing something sexy. soon, they were asking me to dance for them, and ***** of course, which I did, it was fun!

I, too, used to spy on my mother in the shower. The occasional ************ too. It was never if I wanted to have sex with her, just a fascination about the female form.

I like the idea of having him ********** to you or for you, or in front of you. it's all part of life, and the growing up of a man.<br />
ask him, if he is ************ to your pictures, does he want to look at you in real life and do it? if you turn him on that much, I don't think it is bad, and actually, it is an oportunity to teach him about life!<br />
imagine, you have an opportunity to make him a more loving person, teach him all you can, about everything!

I agree that this is something you have to ask him about directly. It's not the type of thing to just brush off.

if your avatar is really you, then be proud of your body, you are gorgeous! <br />
just calmly ask him why, what is the reason to take the pictures. and, if it is as I suspect, because you are drop dead gorgeous, thank him for his praise! if he has been proudly showing off your pictures to his friends, don't get upset, again, he is proud of his mom and wants to show her off. <br />
ask if he is that interested in the naked female form, or is he just interested in yours. I'm more liberal than most in this area, but, in a nudist family this would not happen. I expect he is just interested in any nude female. <br />
you could try breaking him in to seeing you with less and less clothing on around the house. my son eventually paid no attention to me going naked in front of him. you may find the same thing.<br />
if he is that proud of you that he wants to show you off, well, thats another thing for you to deal with. you could encourage him or discourage him, it's up tp you.<br />
myself, I encouraged it, I became the most popular MILF at the school!<br />
while hubby was at work, I had camera classes at our home, to encourage the artistic and creative side of all the boys. I critiqued insect pix, flower pix, and of course figure studies of me. it all worked out very well. they eventually had a show for their photography at the completion of school, and with my permission, included my figure studies. it went over very well, actually.

So what happened after all?

I think he is on the right track. Just the pics of you are maybe a little strange. Yes there may be more to this and one is a beginning passion for the art of beauty. <br />
ASIANJADE

I would agree with all above...Talk to him. Try to be understanding of his feeling and embarrassment.

It would be much weirder if you were my mom but you're not. LOL

Thank you all!

Let him know you found them. Calmly tell him it is not acceptable but you are not angry with him. Set boundries in that talk. make sure he doesn't feel weird and ashamed. Asking why won't get you far..he can't come up with an explanation that will make things look better. Keep it short and simple.Fussing will make it bigger then necessary and stick in his head in the most negative, confusing way. Good luck with the understanding and love.

WOW...being a man this is unique to me...I would talk to him, in an open, non judgemental way.....he may be really proud of you and may be "showing" you off to his friends or as said above you need to discuss this in a way that doesn't create a great divide....not knowing your relationship, if you can talk to him you could explain that many people (specifically males) have voyuer traits and thay if done with permission it is not "wrong" but withoug someone's knowledge it creates trust and other (legal) issues.....please update what happens or what you decide....