I ticked off my husband today, I told him to paint the room right, I just want the job done right. He was so offended, he said I had a big mouth and hasn't been very nice to me all day. I never know when he going to be insulted! He makes me feel so guilty. Is this my problem or his? I wish we were more connected emotionally. We've been married for 18 years, it's always been like this. Sometimes he's mad for 3-4 days. How can I improve things, avoid these situations from happening over and over again.