Paddled Growing Up

I started getting erections during spankings when I was in 3rd grade. My mother would make me undress to my briefs while she went to get the little paddle. By the time she returned I would be standing in the middle of my room wearing just my white cotton briefs and my white socks. As I was thinking what was about to transpire, I 'd start tenting my briefs in anticipation. She'd sit on the bed and I would go over her lap. My hardon would be riding on her thigh. I didn't understand what was happening, just that it felt great. She'd paddle me with her fli-back paddle until my butt was on fire. My erection would usually go down during the stinging paddling, but would return while standing in the corner rubbing the seat of well paddled briefs.
As I got older the erections didn't go down during the paddling. As a teen I was paddled with a school type paddle while bending over the back of a chair. I'd rub my hardon on the chair while I was swatted. My mother never said anything about the erections, but I think she knew they added greatly to my shame and embarrassment and that's they way discipline ought to be.
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The first time it happened to me was when my step sister and I were being babysat by a girl cousin who is ten years older. She was going to stay with us for the weekend. When she arrived my stepmother gave all kinds of instructions about taking care of us then I heard her say "if either one gets out of line I want you to give them a spanking. They are used to it. I use a strap or a belt. if you need to tell them to report to the den and to bring the belt." That night all was well. I had gotten into the habit of wearing my sister's panties. She knew about it and didn't mind. The next day she and I went into town and came home very late for dinner. My cousin was mad and told us she would call our mother. She did and I heard her tell my mother on the phone "i'll get to it right now." We both knew what that meant. she told us to report to the den and told my sister to bring the belt. we got there and my sister was first. Our cousin made her take her jeans off and bend over the desk. She told her that she was going to get 15 strokes. Then she started and that's when i felt myself starting to get hard. After she finished with my sister I was next. She told me to take my jeans off. I was hesitant because I had panties on underneath. She told me either take them off or she would. I took them off and then she told me to bend over the chair. I tried not to face her because by now I was totally hard. She had me bend over the chair and then she said, "you wear panties? how cute." Pull them down. I did. Then she started whipping me with the belt. It stung but I stayed hard. Ever since then whenever I get a strapping I always get hard.

I wear panties too. started when i was 14. at first i didn't wear them all the time because i used to borrow my stepsister's when i thought she did't know. she caught me once and said it was OK and that I could wear panties whenever i wanted. anyway, before i started wearing them all the time from time to time when i was going to get the strap i'd have panties on. my step mother knew i was starting to wear them and after the first time she saw them she didn't say anything just "take your jeans off but you can leave the panties on." I always got super hard and it wouldn't go away unless i jerked off after.

that is actually a very cute story.

Pain and pleasure syndrome. When 'dressed' I enjoy the spankings and get erections, when naked it's just a spanking and very little happens. My pleasure at receiving the pain when 'dressed' gives me an immense and intense pleasure leading to, at times, painful erections. Not allowed to climax during punishment.

Are you fully clothed? What are you spanked with?

Dressed as maid, usually, knickers start on and are then taken off. Anything that Mistress wants to use, crop, paddle, belt, slipper. I have a cat o'nine tails that Mistress does not like using that I am allowed to use on myself.

I have to save my juices for Mistress, any waste is not well received.

I was regularly spanked as a teen. I started getting erections when my step mother did the spanking. I was put over her knee and then she'd pull my pants down and whip my butt with a belt. After awhile I'd start to get hard even before the spanking started. As I got older I had to bend over a chair but first I had to drop my jeans and underpants. She always used a strap and I got hard as soon as I walked into the den for the whipping. I never made the connection between the spanking and sexual turn on until my girlfriend insisted on spanking me when she felt I had done something wrong. She uses a belt or a strap. I always get a very hard erection and sometimes after i *********.

Did your stepmom ever say anything about your erections?

I always get hard when i'm spanked . when i was a teen and got the strap a lot from my step mother or my older step sister i'd always get hard a soon as I was told to drop my pants and bend over the chair. I started ******* off after and years later my step sister told me that she knew I did it because she'd watch

It was same with me. I remember getting hard and even sometimes got or-gas-med. I remember when I was around 11 years old, I started to "weeting" my parents knees with pre-semi-nal fluid (clear and watery ) so my parents changed spanking position into "legs up", I often had erection and sometimes eja-cul-ated "spe-rm". I remember when I was 12 or 13 it looks like geyser, all juvenile watery white fluid landed on my stomach.

If you would like, ask me anything...

I thought I was the only one this happened to

I think it's quite common. Embarrassing though.

It sure is who spanks u

I go to a lady who administers paddlings to well deserving naughty boys.

I was about the same age. Very confusing and embarrassing.

My mother was a strick woman and from the time I was 4 or 5 she gave me mandatory daily spankings. My dad was a fireman and gone most of the time so it was just my mom and I most days. Every morning mom would wake me up have breakfast with me then take me to the bathroom ***** me down and put me in the tub for a bath. After my bath she would straddle the tub "one leg in, one out" with her hairbrush in her hand and drape me over one leg still dripping from my bath she would paddle me very hard for 5 to 10 min depending on her mood. I always left the bathroom with tearing eyes and a very red bottom. This went on everyday until I was 13 when she said I was to big and turned the duties over to my father who did his duty every night with the belt.

stings bad on a wet bottom

I started getting erections during a spanking from around age 10 onward. I was always spanked hard and bare, with a strap or belt. I am a fully grown adult now and still love to be spanked. MY wife is more than happy to blister my bare *** with a nice little leather strap. It makes her soaking wet and after we have great sex. I get spanked at least twice a day, every day!!!!!

Congratulations, not many people can live their passion this way. You got a great wife, be aware of that!

So I did not reply with authenticity,support, and respect? Sorry about that, won t happen again.

ok, np!

Sorry for the late reply I just got the notification. Is the EP's way of improving the site? She started spanking me while we were dating. I love taking my pants down and laying across her lap. Like in your story about your nephew I always have a hard on, however after she starts with the paddle it tends to go away quickly. Lol It comes back while she has me standing in the corner though. Personally I like corner time. Do you do corner time?

My wife spanks me too. I always have a hard on when she lowers my pants, but once the spanking starts it goes away quickly. She mainly uses a paddle or hair brush on me while I lay across her lap.

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blood pressure, nerves, anxiety combined can often produce an erection for a younger boy prior to a bare bottom spanking. Young boys (9 - 13) can pop a ***** in a matter of seconds. While the paddling should commence ***** or not, the youngster should be placed over the edge of the bed or the classic over-the-knee position. Insure that the youngster's appendage (erection) is buffered and not exposed (never spank or paddle standing). It is rare that a boy will still have the ***** after the punishment.

I usually didn't get full erect but it would start that plump and jump. then soft during the spnking. afterwards i'd jerk off

I am 16 years old and my dad spanks me naked over his lap with his big hand. Once I start to cry in pain he laughs at me and hits harder, and I often get an erection. He then makes me stand in a corner for 20 minutes naked. I told him that this is huminaliting but he told me huminalition is part of the punishment. If I am really bad he will spank me in the diaper position for extra huminalition.

At 16 and still being spanked is NOT NORMAL. Spanking as a form of discipline punishment should cease by age 11 or 12. At 16 and getting an erection before, during, or after the spanking is a sexual release. That's fine but your father well knows you have a ***** and that is very questionable behavior on his part!!

No I can't, my parents believe that at my age I should only be spanked by an adult male.

does he respond to your erection?

He knows I have a erection and sees it as normal for me to have one.

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I started getting erections from spanking my step dad use to give me. I had to take off my pants and stand with my hands at my sides and feet shoulder with apart.

When he noticed the early stages of an erection he made me grab my ankles with my leg spread apart which made me get more of an erection. When I had a full hard on he would then strike my nuts with the belt by making it wrap around under my legs that were spread apart making my balls and penis vulnerable to being hit.

My mother spanked me over her lap bare with a wooden hairbrush after age 12. After I was spanked I got corner time, with my bare behind on display and I always got erect during corner time. Mom just ignored my erection as normal for boys.

My spankings were routine in our house and I spent a lot of time in the kitchen corner with my pants and underpants either around my ankles of off and with my penis standing at attention as I cried in the corner.

It`s my experience that most boys get erect prior to a spanking, during and after a spanking. Some of the boys I spanked ********** on my lap, two of them even before I spanked them while I lectured them, wuthout even stimulation of their willie. I also observed it at my brothers. They all got an erection in connection with a spanking.

I think most guys got a erection,I can rember geting spanked by my father at the age of 14,He spanked me with a strap while I lay naked on the bed face down..When he had finnished I had to stand in the corner for 20 mins.
While standing their I would dribble a lot of precum onto the floor..Which I would have to clean up before geting dressed..

we had a wrestling coach that was spank happy, you screwed up and you were in his office, hands on his desk and legs spread, he always got this mischievous smirk on his face when he paddled, I found that I began to screw up on purpose, just so I could be in his office, door closed and a chance to see his open gym bag with his briefs or jockstrap showing, he had to have seen my erection and later pre showing through my jockstrap and thin gym shors

Did you or did he feel embarrassed about that?

Like Brenda, I'm interested in hearing more about your experience/experiences.

How exactly do you spank him?

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