I Get Rid Of Them Quickly
Yeah, I hate this. It's totally obvious when they can barely say hello. They just start in right away on the sex talk. I usually tell them that I'm not interested. I had one guy ask for my email, I gave it to him. I did ask him why we couldn't just pm each other here on Ep. He gave some lame excuse but I forgot what it was. I had never given my email to a man I barely knew but I did it this one time. Right away he already wanted to come down and see me. He was being really pushy about it!!! He lives in upper east Texas. I told him no, I told him he was crazy. I asked him, do you always go around meeting total strangers. I got pissed at him. Then I was telling another Ep'er about it and how he had apologized. She said I should just forgive. Weird thing that had never crossed my mind. Against my better judgement, I accepted his apology. So we start instant messaging. Another bad mistake, he started in again on the sex talk. To be honest he was totally boring me to death. I tried to explain to him that I have to know someone, have feelings for them. He insisted that I would eventually have those feelings for him.
One day, we had a heart to heart talk. I was telling him how I didn't want to hurt my husband. How he is married too and he should not be messing around. I asked him is this all you do, just go around talking about sex with women. Well, the next time we chatted he said that I had gotten through to him. I was shocked!!! Then he would IM me here and there just to see how I was doing. Then he just stopped talking to me. I was still seeing him constantly getting on and off of instant messenger. I have a feeling he's still making his moves, lol. I don't care as long as he's not trying to make them on me!!!! I finally deleted him from my email and my instant messenger. So I learned a lesson, do not give out email or Im to just anyone. I've had other men pm me and just very bluntly start in on the sex talk. I turn them off right away. Some even tell me to go to their pictures. Same thing for me looking at a mans penis, it does NOT excite me. I have to have feelings for the man. My own husband doesn't believe me when I tell him this but it's the truth. Goes to show you how much my husband really knows me!!!