Bruises: Advice Please!!My husband gave me a punishment spanking last night. It had been about 2 weeks since the last one. It wasn´t a particularly painfull one. It was a long and hard hand spanking, it hurt but I don´t even cry.
When he finished he took me in his arms and carry me back to our bedroom, where the light was on. And he just freaked out on the results! To tell the truth I was a little shocked myself... My bottom looks terrible!! I mean REALLY bad.
I don´t understand what happened this time!! I´m not in pain to sit, and I´m sure this was not the worst he´ve gave me, but I have never bruised like this before!
At the end, the one that ended up crying was him. Now he feels so guilty. I repeat over and over that it wasn´t that terrible, but he feels awful anyway, and suggested that maybe he´ll replace the spankings for another type of punishment.
Last night he put me some ice and then an arnika cream (we had that for the children, and it´s suposed to reduce bruises). But today my botton looks just the same. I think I´ll need 2 weeks to heal completely.
What could have happened this time?? I don´t get it... Maybe it´s because I´m PM?? I need advice on how to prevent bruises and how to get rid of these fast!!!