Too Nice For My Own Good!

I get treated as if I have no feelings by people I trust and like far too often! I think it is because I am a happy cheerful person and try to be a good and loyal friend to them and expect the same in return! Maybe I expect too much of people.........I don't know, but it does mean that I get hurt by people's behaviour towards me much too often! I hope no one ever treats them in the way they treat people, because it can be so hurtful. I think sometimes I can be too trusting for my own good and have been burnt a few times by this, but I never learn because it is not in my nature to be a hurtful person! I also keep it to myself and don't let them see how hurt I am and hide behind my happy face, pretending I'm not hurting at all, when inside I am falling apart!

If you have read this thank you, it just helps to get these things out and express how you are feeling!

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4 Responses Feb 8, 2010

I agree with you. I've found that I worry too much about hurting the other person's feelings, but in reality, it's usually up to the other person to react to what you say. And sometimes, it's important to tell someone something even if you know it will hurt them. People need to be told the truth a lot of times regardless of whether it's mean or it might sting. It's tough love and all that. :)<br />
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I hope you aren't afraid to try changing so that people treat you better! I don't want to sound cynical, but in reality, everyone in this world is looking out for themselves, so you've got to look out for yourself.

Cominx dear, pouring your heart like this is good for your soul. I admire your courage to put out in the open to let them know how you been hurt, how you feel. I will support you all along..

Cominx dear, pouring your heart like this is good for your soul. I admire your courage to put out in the open to let them know how you been hurt, how you feel. I will support you all along..

am always here fro you :-) xx