Why Gloryhole Sex?I don't know why I'm like this, but I'm not alone. There are many women who have this same affliction - the inability to connect sex and love. For me they are opposite. I have a hard time being sexual with someone I love, or even like. The most satisfying sex I have is always with men I don't like. Better still, men who are not people. Remove the personality, and I enjoy it more. And all the women I know who share this quirk have one thing in common - we were all sexually active children. I don't know if that's a cause or a symptom, but it's a fact.
The gloryhole is the ultimate sex depersonalizer, reducing both parties to nothing more than their sex organs. Nevertheless, it is possible to have literally every kind of sex through a gloryhole, and everything is tremendously intensified for a woman like me. Foreplay is infinitely more "teasing" through the gloryhole. You can make out, French kiss, through the gloryhole. That's the strangest concept. Making out is usually a very personalized, humanized activity. But doing it through a gloryhole completely depersonalizes, dehumanizes, and ob
The Gloryhole on the female side - the ultimate in sexual depersonalization
I always start at a gloryhole by making out. There's a cool trick you can use to get the guy's mouth in the hole. You press your breast against the hole so that your nipple and areolus protrudes through it. Guys have this automatic tendency to put their mouth around that. It's like magic. Must be some kind of "mommy" thing. Anyway, I let them suck a bit, then slowly pull back away from the hole ... and his mouth moves forward into the hole. Then I drop down and go right into a shallow French kiss (you can't go deep because of the wall, but that's ok - it drives them nuts anyway). This gives me a jolt that turns my nipples into marbles and my ***** into a river. Interestingly, making out with a guy in person usually turns me off - but has the opposite effect through the gloryhole.
The Gloryhole from the male side - depersonalized here too
The next step is a feel-up. Thigh skin is perfect for that task. I hold my thigh about a inch from the hole. Most gloryholes are wide enough for a guy to fit almost his whole hand. I usually move my legs up and down and turn it around so that he could get a good feel of the whole thing. Then I will lower it down so that his hand gets into that "naughty" texture close to the *****. As depersonalized as the gloryhole is, there is quite a psychology at work that you can take advantage of. There is a huge sexual power shift. The man is a helpless sex recipient. The woman is in total control of how much and what kind of stimulation he gets. The man can only stick his fingers or penis through the hole, but the woman's entire body can be at play. The gloryhole actually increases the sexuality of her body. Unfortunately, many women who would otherwise enjoy depersonalized sex shy away from gloryholes because of the sleazy venues in which they are commonly found, as seen in the picture below.
Unfortunately, this is where you usually find gloryholes
So the way I play with this psychology is to offer his fingers ever increasing anticipation. Get him higher and higher on your thigh, causing his finger to anticipate that it will soon be inside your organs. When it's time to give that finger a sample of your insides, I don't simply put my ***** on the hole. That would cause him to have to probe around for the opening. Instead I use a "blitzkrieg" technique. I back away from the hole just far enough for him to have to reach way in to keep the tip of his finger on my thigh, then use my hands to spread open my labia, and literally slide my vagaina over his finger. This is a little tricky because the only real way to penetrate is from behind, so I have to bend forward and back myself aginast the hole. Then I slowly slide back and forth along the length of his finger. You'll be amazed how fast that finger gets replaced by a penis.
Gloryhole heaven from the male side of the wall
A note about giving ***** through a gloryhole - it ain't easy. There is no good angle against a flat wall, and there's no way to do a deep penetration. Fortunately, from the male point of view, the excitement of depersonalization more than makes up for the lack of depth. So the only point to be made is your own comfort. Although it is marginally possible to do a frontal penetration facing the wall, your best chance of success will be to take it from behind. Thus, you will have to press your vulva against the hole. The only convenient way to do this is bend over far enough to put your vaginal opening in front of the hole, and take it straight doggie.
This is about all the depth you'll get with straight in doggie
Unfortunately, this gives a rather shallow penetration. "Scissor position", sideways with one leg up affords deeper penetration, but places you in an awkward posture that will quickly lead to fatigue. So I always take it bend forward, straight in doggie. After all, the width of the wall is already a significant fraction of the total length of the penis, so no need to try for depth anyway.
Scissor position takes it deeper, but is awkward and difficult to maintain
Once the penis is in, I back myself all the way against the hole and press my backside as hard as I can against the wall. Then I just remain totally motionless, and let him "**** the gloryhole". That's the psychology on HIS side of the wall. He's ******* the wall, and to him it is incredible. From his point of view it is extremely intense because the focus is entirely on his penis. There are no distractions for his hands to feel up. No voices for his brain to listen to. No demands spoken or implied from the "woman" (who doesn't even exist to him). It is all about what it feels like in its purest sense.
At this point it all goes very fast. Men tend to *** rapidly and with a big load, and his ****** lasts longer than regular *******. I like to stay as quiet as I can because it is so cool to hear the muffled moans and breath heavings filtering through the wall. Some guys even begin to "grope" the wall out of a natural instinct to grab the female during his ******. I listen for the sounds of his hands sliding on the wall.
Depersonalization removes the subconscious need to "pleasure" the female,
allowing the male to focus his full energy on his own ******
If you have a sadistic streak, a really cool trick to use is to allow him to **** just until that first *** squirt (you can usually feel this inside you and you can usually anticipate when that's going to happen by feeling for the "head bloat" that happens just before a guy ****), then immediately pull yourself off his penis. I love doing this on occasion to watch the remaining squirts shoot out in the air. I find that thrilling. Of course I only do that on rare occasion because I don't want to miss out on my own physical pleasure of taking his entire ******.
So that answers the question a lot of "normal" women ask - why gloryhole sex?