Thinking About His Letter

So i got another letter on Wenesday from jeff. As i've said we've known eachother for four years and he thinks we can make it through anything. I think so as well but in his last two letters he has asked me if we should get promise rings or if i thought we were ready for engagement. I do want to spend the rest of my life with him I know that for a fact. But im scared because we are both 19 and how do I know if he really means what he said. Before jeff and i got together I was dating this boy named Steven. He was a poolee for the marine corps. He ended up cheating on me but still told me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. After we broke up I wondered if all guys just said that to make girls happy. I really believe jeff loves me but Im afraid that we are rushing it. I told him I think we should aim for being together a year before we get engaged then that way i'll be out of high school and we'll have been through the distance things so we'd know that we can get over any obsticle. Did I say the right thing?

infantrygirl322 infantrygirl322
18-21, F
1 Response Sep 19, 2009

hey babe im here for you i always have been i think you said the right thing i know both of you personally and i think you should try to be with him for 6months to a year or atleast a month to try it out cause of everything thats been going on and happeneing a few years ago! if you wanna talk about it remember i am one of the girls that know exactly what your going through i love you britt!