It Was A Selfish ReasonI had a vasectomy after my third daughter was born.
I seem to have struggled through the first two children, and was shocked when my wife said the third was on the way. I cried, rather selfishly, thought I would not cope. When she was born, beautiful of course..I cried again, this time with love for her and my wife. It was then that I decided to book in for my vasectomy, I knew deep down I could not cope if my wife were to fall pregnant again. Call me rather unsensitive, but my wifes feelings never came into it. I had the snip and we carried on a while, then things strated to go wrong, only had myself to blame/ Now I live in a sexless marriage, where we both do our own thing. Would I turn back the clock....... no I dont think I would.
holdfirm 46-50, M 3 Responses 0 Jan 5, 2012