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Thank God It Is Finally Over.

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Aug 14th, 2009

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I started dating this guy whom I had known for a couple years in october. I always just thought of him as a player/womanizer and we were just friends. I just wanted to keep it casual with him and was clear about that from the beginning. He seemed to make it his mission to make me fall in love with him after a few months. It was like it was an exciting challenge to him. Well anyways after 7 months, I discovered he was seeing his supposed ex girlfriend of 4 years still. I assumed they werent seeing eachother anymore since he had gotten 2 other girls pregnant behind her back. I thought what kind of woman would put up with that and stick around? At the time I didn't realize what I was truly up against. After a few weeks he and I started talking again and he said she wouldn't accept the fact that he didn't want to be with her anymore and that is why she called all the time. He was practically living with me. On mothers day a few hours after he left my house I texted him to see if he was coming back. His "ex" texted me back saying that she was his girlfriend and to leave them alone. Still after a few weeks I got lonely and he and I started talking again. I really thought they had split this time since she found out about me, but of course he lied. I finally contacted her myself online and her and I started talking and realized he had been having relationships with both of us. He even got us the same mothers day present. I stopped talking to him right before we were supposed to go to seattle together. My daughter and I were on the plane ready to go and here he comes on the airplane as if nothing happened. I avoided him in seattle, we never saw eachother at all except for the airport on the way home. He has a very inflated ego. Anyways, I found out I was pregnant with his demon spawn about a month later. Just when I thought things couldn't get any worse, yet another of his "exes" who was actually stalking me a few months prior to this and caused me to move and get a PO Box was calling constanly on his phone and I was curious as to why since according to him they hadn't messed around in almost a year. I called her and it turns out my"stalker" and him had also been dating the entire time he was seeing myself and the other girl. That was the last straw. I couldn't ake anymore torture and living in a constant state of wondering what next. I am free and so is other woman number one, but other woman number 2 has a child with the douchebag, so he will continue to manipulate, stalk, and deceive her forever. Hope she escapes sometime. She has already let him get away with sooooo much she is probably used to it by now sad to say.

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BlueGeorgia	Posted Aug 14th, 2009 at 9:58PM Seems to me that you let him bye with to much too. +2 nods
drachirhk	Posted Aug 16th, 2009 at 7:13AM wow... It really is a good thing for you that it is over... I applaud and support your efforts in leaving him.... You may have let him bye with to much... but your not the only one to do that... its very hard to be totally rational when emotions are involved... at the end of the day its best that your free.
zilphia	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 1:07PM my ex is living with a woman in the midwest. she took him in after knowing him on the internet. I shot him when he was beating me up, and she took him in colostomy and all and treats him like a wounded hero. Moral of the story..there is no limit to what women in lover will believe and no limit to what excuses they will make for their beloved. This is the reason that so many women get hurt not to mention beaten and killed...they find out about these men, but refuse to believe what is public knowledge, and they blame the last girlfriend/exwife for damaging their darling.
drachirhk	Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 8:33PM Wow... I think that you have reached a higher plane of existence... It is awesome that you managed to make friends with is ex.. discovering that she too was a victim.
drachirhk	Posted Aug 18th, 2009 at 5:22AM Hahaha... I bet it makes him squirm too!!! :D

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