Is He Narcisstic?

He, on the other hand  is extremely popular, with guys and girls, c harming, lovable, funny, life of the partyl ect. Nobody will believe the things he says to me. I really think I'm crazy!

WHEN HE'S IN THE PHASE WHERE HE DOESN'T SEEM TO CARE: 
(on feeling like he can't go out without me cause it makes him feel guilty and anxious) 
" I just feel bad that your friends stay in all the time so you're just like sitting at home and don't have anything to do while I go do stuff." 

(after I've spent every nigth there and i THOUGHT he liked it, randomly one day out of NOWHERE:) 
" You don't live here ok??? Why do you feel like u need to spend the night every night?" 

(on why he ignores me when he goes out with his friends) 
" Well I just knew you were gonna be mad at me and frankly didn't wanna deal with it." 
or: "I'm sory I don't have my phone glued to my side when I go out" 

(if we haven't had sex in a while and I ask him about it) 
" Why do you always feel like we need to have sex? It'd be nice if we could just hang out once in a while. Sorry I don't feel like having sex everyday." 

(when I try to make him dinner) 
"Well I don't understand why it's so hard for you to bring the stuff over and make it here instead of going to your place." 


"I'm sorry, but there's just not that much to do at your apartment. It gets boring sometimes going over there. It's not you it'd be this way with any other girl. I just like being in my space with my things where I'm comfortable and have something to do." 

"Well your family hates me, so I'm not quite ready to face that obstacle yet." (he NEVER wanted to hang out with my family.) 

"No, we're not going to watch that movie (jokingly) . Since when have you picked out a good movie julie?" 

"I'm sorry, I just don't have to hang out with you every day to know that I like you. Why can't you just be confident and know I like you?" 

"Whenever you think something is wrong, instead of bringing it up why don't you just wait a day and see if it goes away." 

"Why are you being so negative?" 

WHEN HE'S IN THE PHASE WHERE HE DOES: 

(on why i didn't want to visit him in his city while I was still in college) 
" You have two main priorities in life, julie. Partying, and being a ****." 

(about my roommates, the NICEST ppl in the world) 
"Well, I just feel like by being around them you've changed. It's like they're kind of *****. You'll learn one day that partying is not as fun as the more important things in life." 

(when I couldn't visit him for a football game because i had a marketing test the next day. He accidently burned his face with vodka/fire) 
"Well if you would have been here, that wouldn't have happened. I set up the grill and everything and told everybody you were coming, and you didn't show which not only embarrassed me but now my face is | please read |ing burnt to ****. Thanks a lot." 

(when I didn't visit him after that incident cause he was rude to me): 
" How was that marketing test julie? Was it worth it? Tell me, what did you | please read |ing learn in marketing class that is so much more important than coming to see me when my face is burnt off?" 

(when i wouldn't answer his phone calls, because he was being rude) 
" Julie, I'm driving home 2 hours drunk right now. I hope you know that if I run off the road it's your fault." 

(when we both ran into an ex boyfriend who I was civil to at the bars 
"Why did you talk to him?? You've been | please read |ing him haven't you?" 

NO-WIN SITUATION EXAMPLES: 
(I invited him to a wedding) 
(he kept hinting he'd rather go to a chiefs game) 
(.....3 times) 
(finally I let him go to the game because I knew he was excited for it) 
(he thanks me) 
(one week later, he goes to a wedding while I'm out of town and all but cheats on me and when I ask him what went on he goes:) 
"Well I was hurt that you de-invited me to your wedding last week. It just makes me wonder what your motives are." Even though HE hinted at it!!! 

(when I went to the lake with his family for 5 days, had to leave 2 days early for job orienation. On the way home I got stuck in a tornado and seriously almost died. He went toSLEEP before he even knew I got home, was mean for the whole rest of the 2 days he was there whne I talked to him). 
me: "Why are you being so distant is everything ok?" 
him: "Well I mean, I just don't get why you had to leave for that job thing. Couldn't that have waited? Seriously you left in the middle of my family trip. It just really upset me." 
(obviously I couldn't help the fact that I had to leave for my job and he knew that).. 


Ideas, anybody??? Help me out here. Sorry so long! Thanks!