i had an ex that i was with for three yrs and at one point in time he was very controlling well ... i had an idea he was using coke. so my partner in crime and i devised a plan to tell him i was pregnant to see if he would admit it because i knew he was lying to me . Well he admitted that he was and we talked about it and he decided that he wanted me to have an abortion a huge lightbulb went off in my head when he said he'd pay for it needless to say we went shopping and then he ran into my sister at a bar and told her i was pregnant and she said no shes not and all the pieces went crumbling down . I actually go kicked out my of house because of it ... But i never paid him back and i betcha he thinks twice about lying to someone now .