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My Father And Mother.

My name is Lee, Im a 14 year old girl, but I've always been spanked. My parents always believed in corporal punishment, bare bottom over their knee, or over the bed, and occationally, Diaper Position. 
My most recent was last week. I refused to go out with my parents one night, and my dad threatened me. He then told me to go to my room, as he would be up shortly. I waited, wish seemed like forever. He then came up, stood me up and took down my short shorts, and my panties, as always. So then he put me and my bare bottom over his lap and started my spanking, rapid, hard hand spanks came raining down on my butt.  I was screaming by the 5th spank, because he spanks very hard. He spanked for what seemed like forever, stood me up and put me and my naked bottom at the corner, hands on my head. After about 10 mins he got me, bent me over the bed, and unbuckled his bed. I was sobbing uncontrollably at what was inevitable, wasting no time, my dad whipped my butt, and then it just was continious. Then he dropped the belt, stood me up, put me at the corner, and no, I wasnt allowed to rub.  He then told me to go to sleep without supper.

Then another experience, last week, I came home with a D in a certain subject. My mom was home, and freaked out. On the spot, she took off all my clothes, shirt, skirt, bra and panties and put me over her lap and spanked viciously. I was so scared of her, and so sad about getting a D, and my bottom was on fire. She then got her hairbrush, a thick one, and continued. She stood me up at a corner, Hands on the head, fully naked, and told me to wait for my father. About a half hour, I was over his lap and started getting spanked on my already on fire bottom. OTK of my dad, he then got the hairbrush too, and spanked me, but he was far from done. After the hairbrushing, he made me lie down on the couch face down, and took of his belt, and whipped my butt like there was no tomorrow. He also didnt shy away from my sit spots and thighs, i was red from the top of my butt, to my thighs. I couldnt sit comfortably for a week. It was horrible, and my parents were mad at me for the whole week, ignoring me. And after the week, i got another hairbrush spanking, to be reminded not to have bad grades. 
iwashereandthere iwashereandthere 26-30, M 26 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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This is a prime example of what I was talking about on another post. This is no 14 year-old girl, and you are writing under the description of a 26-plus-year-old man. If you want to fantize this much, find another website - not EP. This is for REAL experiences with REAL people.

You're name is Lee. You're a 14 year old girl. Raised in the 50's. and writing under the heading of a 26-30 year old man. What part of this are we suppose to believe is true?

I dont have an issue with spanking but to me thats a bit over board. I got spankings but It was either from my mom or my dad and it was always with a belt. In my opinion what you go was boarderline abuse there sweety! They were abusing you to no ends. Its one thing to get a spanking but you were getting beatings.

very good story

But never more than 10 swats with each.. And only got up to 10 if it was a F

I dont know. Cause I had a bad bare bottom spanking if I brought home anything under a 75 C.. My dad didnt work and he was the first to see my grades.. He had a paddle he made for the days that I got my grades. It had holes in it and was 1 inch thick was never used unless on the bare skin. He used the paddle and belt and like your dad was not shy of my sit stop.. I was also grounded till the was at least a B and had a weekly grade sent home.. It really sucked back then

With all due respect, I think your parents went "overboard" in their discipline.

That's just sick, and I think that if you're really 14 years old, you should call CPS, as I'm sure they would help you.. This is just abuse.

The story is not too much reliable.

What do u mean?

There is a strong sexual feeling in this story if it is true and you are a 14 yr old girl. It must be very humiliating to be ******** naked at that age by anyone. , even by parents. You are a young woman , not a child Your body must have fully developed.

your a nut

i believe you this karen18597 person obviously didnt have old fashioned parents i think everything they r doing now is okay but if it gets worse go talk to someone or just tell then you think your to old to be getting bare bottom spankings

My gf was ******** and spanked by her father when she was 12 for talking to boys. He called her a ***** and told her this is what ****** get. She was a well developed girl of 12. Very indepenent and has never forgotten. She hates men and does not enjoy sex.

I think a teenage girl should only be spanked bare by her mom or other woman, and a teenage boy should only be spanked bare by a father or other man. If this is true what you wrote you should really talk to a teacher or counselor at school.

People used to think it was necessary to "spank" adult members of the community, military trainees, and prisoners. In some countries they still do. In our country, it is considered sexual battery if a person over the age of 18 is "spanked", but only if over the age of 18.



For one thing, because the buttocks are so close to the sex organs, anal region, and so multiply linked to sexual nerve centers, striking them can trigger powerful and involuntary sexual stimulus in some people. There are numerous physiological ways in which it can be intentionally or unintentionally sexually abusive, but I won't list them all here. One can read the testimony, documentation, and educational resources available from the website of Parents and Teachers Against Violence In Education at www.nospank.net.



Child bottom-slapping/battering vs. DISCIPLINE:



Child bottom-slapping/battering (euphemistically labeled "spanking","swatting","switching","smacking", "paddling",or other cute-sounding names) for the purpose of gaining compliance is nothing more than an inherited bad habit.



Its a good idea for people to take a look at what they are doing, and learn how to DISCIPLINE instead of hit.



There are several reasons why child bottom-slapping/battering isn't a good idea. Here are some good, quick reads recommended by professionals:



Plain Talk About Spanking

by Jordan Riak

http://www.nospank.net/pt2010.pdf



The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children

by Tom Johnson

http://nospank.net/sdsc2.pdf



NO VITAL ORGANS THERE, So They Say

by Lesli Taylor MD and Adah Maurer PhD

http://nospank.net/taylor.htm



Just a handful of those helping to raise awareness of why child bottom-slapping/battering isn't a good idea:



American Academy of Pediatrics,

American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry,

American Psychological Association,

Center For Effective Discipline,

Churches' Network For Non-Violence,

Nobel Peace Prize recipient Archbishop Desmond Tutu,

Parenting In Jesus' Footsteps,

Global Initiative To End All Corporal Punishment of Children,

United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child.



In 26 countries, child corporal punishment is prohibited by law (with more in process). In fact, the US was the only UN member that did not ratify the Convention on the Rights of the Child.



The US states with the highest crime rates and the poorest academic performance are also the ones with the highest rates of child corporal punishment.



There is simply no evidence to suggest that child bottom-slapping/battering instills virtue.

People used to think it was necessary to "spank" adult members of the community, military trainees, and prisoners. In some countries they still do. In our country, it is considered sexual battery if a person over the age of 18 is "spanked", but only if over the age of 18.



For one thing, because the buttocks are so close to the sex organs, anal region, and so multiply linked to sexual nerve centers, striking them can trigger powerful and involuntary sexual stimulus in some people. There are numerous physiological ways in which it can be intentionally or unintentionally sexually abusive, but I won't list them all here. One can read the testimony, documentation, and educational resources available from the website of Parents and Teachers Against Violence In Education at www.nospank.net.



Child bottom-slapping/battering vs. DISCIPLINE:



Child bottom-slapping/battering (euphemistically labeled "spanking","swatting","switching","smacking", "paddling",or other cute-sounding names) for the purpose of gaining compliance is nothing more than an inherited bad habit.



Its a good idea for people to take a look at what they are doing, and learn how to DISCIPLINE instead of hit.



There are several reasons why child bottom-slapping/battering isn't a good idea. Here are some good, quick reads recommended by professionals:



Plain Talk About Spanking

by Jordan Riak

http://www.nospank.net/pt2010.pdf



The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children

by Tom Johnson

http://nospank.net/sdsc2.pdf



NO VITAL ORGANS THERE, So They Say

by Lesli Taylor MD and Adah Maurer PhD

http://nospank.net/taylor.htm



Just a handful of those helping to raise awareness of why child bottom-slapping/battering isn't a good idea:



American Academy of Pediatrics,

American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry,

American Psychological Association,

Center For Effective Discipline,

Churches' Network For Non-Violence,

Nobel Peace Prize recipient Archbishop Desmond Tutu,

Parenting In Jesus' Footsteps,

Global Initiative To End All Corporal Punishment of Children,

United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child.



In 26 countries, child corporal punishment is prohibited by law (with more in process). In fact, the US was the only UN member that did not ratify the Convention on the Rights of the Child.



The US states with the highest crime rates and the poorest academic performance are also the ones with the highest rates of child corporal punishment.



There is simply no evidence to suggest that child bottom-slapping/battering instills virtue.

There is more to this story than punishment. There is an obvious sexual side . Getting her naked, even if it is her parents is all wrong at 14 She is a woman.

I don't believe you.

what was the 'D" in? If it was in anything but conduct, your parents over-reacted!

You are obviously not a 14 year old girl and you like to "get arise out of people" so to speak.

Do not listen to aaad and olderguy4 because they are much older then you and me and so had different punishments when they were at our age. In this day and age I do strongly belive that this is a type of sexual abuse. At the age of 14 you are basically a youg woman and should not be striped naked for any reason EVEN if there is only your parents there to see you. Does any other child that you know at your age get punished this way? No? I didnt think so. You need to tell someone about this. Enyone.

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thats abuse. and as for the naked thing,completely wrong at 14 years of age or at any age come to think of it.go to a teacher or trusted adult and if you cant do that ring child line.your folks are control freaks dude.wonder how they'd feel if they got a kick up the arse for not being perfect. your human, not an angel.

One problem is that you dont seem to learn from your bad behaviour. You refused to go out with your parents, knowing what the result would be. You let your grades fall in school also knowing the results. Your parents should give you a spanking weekly for your D in that course until your grade improves. It should remind you that your school work is important and that one of your main responsibilities is to prepare yourself for your future.



As for being spanked naked, it is the best way to disipline a teen. It is difficult to be a wise *** when you are naked. Clothes are a privilige and when you do things like you described fully knowing the punishment you would face, you dont deserve to have your clothes at home.

im registered that way because i rushed the registration thank you :)

oh god! My mother was and still very hard on me

i grew up in the 1950s into the 1960s . parents were much stricter then . and the cane was used in schools . i myself often went home with a welted bottom . i was often thrashed in the same way by my mum at home if i deserved to be punished . it did me no lasting harm . i have no bad feelings for thoses that punished me . i loved both my parents , i do believe the discipline i got growing up made me succeed as an adult . i have had a very good life . thanks to my mum being strict and making do my very best at everything i did growing up . i became a good person . respected and trusted by all . and achieved financial freedom at age 31years young . a disciplined life is good for you lee . your parents whant you to succeed . as did mine . by doing your very best everyday of your life . be happy that your parents care enough to punish you if and when it is deserved . it will do you no lasting harm . learn to be relaxed as you are being punished giving yourself to the pain . you might even get to like taking severe punishment . your pain threshhold is much higher when you are relaxing . put the fear out of your head . and relax take the pain willingly . for me it was scolding i found hard to take . one can get used to the pain very soon by relaxing giving yourself to it . davidmaher48@gmail.com

Hey I myself belive in discpliane to an extent but this seems like u need to tell a school coulser soon, this could be getting out of hand it almost sounds like sexual abuse to a point. Try to talk to someone soon about this and protect urself!