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My Boyhood Spankings

I was spanked, at home, from ages 5 through 13.  All of them were on my bare bottom, most were usually OTK.  I was spanked by both my mom and dad.

 

My dad was an "on the spot" spanker in the home.  Whatever room the offense occurred in was where I would be spanked.  Dad would yank down my pants and briefs and put me over his knee.  He would lecture me, while I was in that vulnerable position.  When he was done with the lecture, he would announce that "it was now time to get to the seat of my problem" and the spanking would begin.  He spanked with his big hand and his spankings tended to be long, rather than hard.  It caused the heat to build up on my bare seat.

If I ever was caught lying to my parents, he would take off everything and I would have to bend naked over the arm of the couch.  He then paddled my bare bottom with a ping pong paddle.  That stung like the dickens!

My mom did it differently.  She would send me up to my room to "get ready for my spanking."  That meant my bottom had to be bare by the time she got there.  Sometimes, I would just pull my pants and briefs.  Other times, I took them off.  A few times I removed everything!  I hated having to wait for her.  I'd lie tummy down on my bed knowing soon my bottom would be quite red and sore.

When she came in, I'd have to climb over her lap.  She would either use a slipper, sturdy wooden ruler, or the dreaded hairbrush.  She spanked hard and slowly making each swat sink in before she administered another one.

I preferred being spanked by my dad because it was over quicker.  Sometimes, I had to do naked corner time after a spanking.  I wasn't allowed to rub my stinging bottom then.  I hated that.  If we got a spanking before bedtime, we chose to go to bed sans pajama pants.  I'd lie on my tummy, in bed, contemplating why I had been spanked. 
 

I had a year younger brother and we had an unspoken invitation to witness one another's spanking.  I guess my folks thought it would be a powerful object lesson for the unspanked son.  It sure was for me!  I learned it was m,ore fun to watch a bare bottom spanking than get one!  I was fascinated watching my brother lil' rear get redder and redder with each swat.  We never teased each other about getting spanked because would knew that our roles would reversed at some point in the future.

I can honestly say we never got a spanking that we did not deserve.  Neither of us ever felt we were being abused.  In fact, getting spanked by my dad seem a bit like a male bonding experience for me.  Once my spanking was over -- and the occasional corner time afterward -- that was the end of my punishment.  The "air had been cleared," my debt paid, and nothing more was said about my misdeed or spanking.  Of course, I remembered my spanking for the next couple days every time I sat down.  It wasn't painful, but it was tender enough to remind me of what the consequences would be at home for serious misbehavior.

I believe my brother's and my spankings shaped us into the fine men we grew to be.  I utilize the same methods, that my dad did, on my two preteen sons.



 

 

ExKid ExKid 46-50, M 18 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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How often were you spanked by your parents exkid and did the spankings do any good?

I probably got spanked once a month as a preteen boy. Maybe three times a month during the summer months. I seemed to get into more mischief when school was out.

I'm 14, and my parents spank me when I misbehave. My last one was this past Saturday night because I had gone to the creek with some friends to see where teens go to do drugs. The cops sometimes go there to bust the teens. I was told never to go there, but this one time I did. I had to be talked into going, but not too much.

When we got there, no one was there except the four of us. We saw remnants of drugs like needles, wrappers, left over joints, etc.

We left after a few minutes, but I felt very guilty about disobeying my parents.

After much thought and advise from a lady who I trust, I confessed my deed to my parents at dinner.

I could tell they were upset with me, but at the same time, they expressed their approval for coming to them first and telling them what I had done.

I was allowed to finished eating dinner but was told to go to my room and wait for my punishment.

While I was waiting for my parents, they were calling thr other parents to inform them of their own son's misdeeds. After 30 mins, my parents entered my room.

I watched as my dad started taking off his belt as hebordered me to drop my pants and boxers. He then had me bend over the bed and proceeded to spank me with his wide belt on my bare bottom.

By the time I got 5 licks of the belt and lost count. I was balling like a baby. I don't know how many licks of thr belt I got but I was a well spanked boy. He sent me to bed while the sun was still up.

Mom informed me that I was grounded which meant no tv, no computer, no cell phone and lots of quiet time in my room, to think about my disobedience and especially, the danger input myself in.

That's a spanking I will never forget. But I deserved every lick of the belt.

Man that sucked to be spanked with both mom and dad in the room. Did dad do any lecturing when he and mom came into the room or just told you to drop your pants and boxers? Were you facing both of them when you dropped your clothes and did they fall to the floor? Then over the bed and how much crying or hollering did you do? Were you embarrassed after the spanking did you get up and dance around holding your butt?

Both my parents were never in the room, when I got a spanking. Dad always yanked my pants and briefs to my ankles. Mom made me go up to my room and "get ready for a spanking," which meant my bottom had to be bare by the time she got there. I did plenty of crying and hollering! Those spankings really stung on my bare bottom. I wasn't embarrassed, but I sure did a lot hopping around and rubbing my red, hot lil' rear after a sound spanking.

James u loved it

How much crying did you do and can you add me to the circle of freinds.

You did deserve this spanking. I only got the belt once... at age 10... from my best friend's dad... bare bottom with his son. My folks didn't believe in using the belt. My dad used his hand or a ping pong paddle. My mom used a ruler, slipper, or her hairbrush. The hairbrush and ping pong paddle stung the most. All my spankings at home... and two at school... were asdministered on my very bare lil' rear!

What grade were the two bare bottom spankings at school and were the teachers male or female? Any witnesses to the school spankings?

Interesting you changed your age....me thinks youre an old man who thinks he fools some

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I'm 14, and my parents spank me when I misbehave. My last one was this past Saturday night because I had gone to the creek with some friends to see where teens go to do drugs. The cops sometimes go there to bust the teens. I was told never to go there, but this one time I did. I had to be talked into going, but not too much.

When we got there, no one was there except the four of us. We saw remnants of drugs like needles, wrappers, left over joints, etc.

We left after a few minutes, but I felt very guilty about disobeying my parents.

After much thought and advise from a lady who I trust, I confessed my deed to my parents at dinner.

I could tell they were upset with me, but at the same time, they expressed their approval for coming to them first and telling them what I had done.

I was allowed to finished eating dinner but was told to go to my room and wait for my punishment.

While I was waiting for my parents, they were calling thr other parents to inform them of their own son's misdeeds. After 30 mins, my parents entered my room.

I watched as my dad started taking off his belt as hebordered me to drop my pants and boxers. He then had me bend over the bed and proceeded to spank me with his wide belt on my bare bottom.

By the time I got 5 licks of the belt and lost count. I was balling like a baby. I don't know how many licks of thr belt I got but I was a well spanked boy. He sent me to bed while the sun was still up.

Mom informed me that I was grounded which meant no tv, no computer, no cell phone and lots of quiet time in my room, to think about my disobedience and especially, the danger input myself in.

That's a spanking I will never forget. But I deserved every lick of the belt.

Firestorm, can you add me to your circle?

How often do you have to spank your preteen sons, and what do you use?

I spank them bare bottom OTK, mostly with my hand, but sometimes with a ping pong paddle for serious misdeeds.

It may hurt at the time but it dose you no harm in the long run.

How true!

My parents and I both used the 3 rule,no.1 a warning no.2 the hand prepared to smack no.3 would be to smack fairly hard once on buttocks or top of legs.don't remember my dad ever smacking me but my mum did but only cos i used to be cheeky and it stung slightly i would push that little bit more.But I loved my parents.As to my kids I think I might have smacked them up till about 5 maybe once or twice found threatening to take away pocket money worked better.

I was quote spanked many times by both my mother & father almost always bare bottom. the rule in our house was it did'nt matter how old you were they decided your fate on what they felt was necssary I had two brothers and two sisters and we were sometimes spanked in front of one another and other times in private .there was nothing sexual nor abuseive about it just to very strict parents who may been wrong with some of their metonds but their intenion was right .I was twentyfive when I finaly left home I was saving some money to get married but I also had a big medical problem I was a bedwetter even though many many doctors examined me they all said i would most likely grow out of it . i did not in fact it got worse with having both day and night acciddents i was diapered 24/7 by my mother and if i was wet or dirty when checked or changed I got the belt .when at 19 I complained stateing that was to old to diapered by my mother and spanked bare with the belt I was told that I had the choice of stopping or moving out so at 25 i mooved out married the love of my life and the most unstanding woman who understood my problem and never complained .I lost her 3 yrs to cancer . but as i said before I don'tt belive my parents meant no harm

It was a great account. I often wish I had a dad like yours...My mom did spank like your dad, which was not hard, but lengthy. I always had a bright red, tingling fanny when she was through!

I know precisely what you mean! Those lengthy spankings caused the heat to build up on my bare lil' seat!

I find your story fascinating. I was spank as a kid as well, my spankings ending just before puberty. I have to admit...I think I enjoyed them. They did seem to go on and on..

I got my bare bottom spankings from ages 5 through 13. I started to appreciate them around age 10 and on. Having my bottom forcibly bared drove me wild and I liked feeling the warm afterglow spreading across my roasted rear.

you see i dont think that is the problem with kids of today, i grew up through the late 90s and we got smacked at home as did a lot of my friends. We would get a smack on the rear for bad behaviour and we learnt our lesson. We knew rules and we also knew if we broke them that we would be punished. We had other forms of discipline as well such as being grounded etc. I have to say we certainly knew in our house when we were in deep trouble, we would find ourselves over our parents lap getting our bare backside smacked :( my mother was the one who disciplined most in our house and she was never bothered if we had visitors we would still go over her knee for what she called a good hiding. as we got older (8+) we would be sent to our room and she would come in with a hair brush or a wooden spoon to smack our backsides with OOUCH!!!! I know that it was not just my household that held this rule as i was often at friends houses when there mothers and fathers would bare there butts for a smack. I have to say it did hurt and i dont think ill ever 4get the sting of the wooden spoon but it did teach us a lesson and more often than not all my parents had to say was " do you want to find yourself across my knee?" only difference than the above story is we did take the pee out of eachother wen we got a smack and i think that was more humilating than the smack itself lol.

I still get mine. Much the same as mentioned before.



Lynsey 14 yrs

A fine story!

My parents never, had me pull down my pants. I was spanked with clothes on, but one time I did have pants down, which was when I had just pooped in my pants and my dad, whipped me. He whipped me with a belt and I had poop all over me, and the belt, I had to clean it after wards, for my punishment, also.

That's wrong with the world today, the kids know, they won't get a spanking! They can turn you in to Children Services, or to the police, and complain to them that you are abusive. So, who are they going to believe? I have had friends, tell me to spank their children if they misbehave, But I won't spank another child that does not belong to me, I just don't them around me. I am glad I cannot have children, that's one gift from God, I am glad I don't have.

I am sure, Crystal, that a lot depended on the circumstances surrounding your childhood spankings. Nothing upsets a kid more than getting a spanking he/she does not believe he/she deserves.



Also, there are spankings... and there are beatings. There is a huge difference between the two. My brother and I were not spanked for every little misdeed. Such punishment was reserved for serious offenses like lying, stealing, disrespect or rudeness, or deliberate disobedience.



For me, bare bottom spankings reinforced my limits and let me know I was loved no matter what I did. Once a spanking was over, all was forgiven and the wrongdoing was not brought up again. A lot of kids would gladly accept a spanking -- not a beating -- to get such absolution.

I got spanked with the fly swatter that metal handle smarted on my bare legs for I wore dresses when I was very young.

I asked my son one time, it you had a little boy who did what you did, what would you do? And he said, spank him so I spanked him. I also would spank my youngest son only when they needed it and they never said that they didn't deserve it.

I was whipped or spanked up an till I was 18 years of age. I thought a whipping is a hard term, but really I prefer the term spanking. Because the tem whipping, is that your getting the **** beat out of you and spanking, is just that? Spanking!!! Well and way, I was spanked up until I was 18, and usely by a belt ,or switch. Then after I, turned 19? Does, the term, turn the other check, remind you of anything? Well, I turned mine and I got busted twice, by my mother, she had a good right cross!!!

I got my share for sure and I now recognize they were for my own good back then. There was nothing abusive or sexual about my boyhood spankings. The latter may be why they ceased just before I started puberty. Of course, no one told me they had ended, so I continued on for a couple years still believing my misbehavior could result in a bare bottom spanking. I was a very well behaved young teenager!

A good spanking, is good for you, I myself do not regret any of them. I wish, though I had gotten more.

I got enough, but I did kinda like certain aspect of a bare bottom spanking between ages 10-13. I never got a spanking after age 13.