A Short To The Point Story.

Without going into the details, I am 51 and have 2 children. My oldest is 27 and hasn't spoken to or seen me in nearly 6 years. This obviously hurts like hell and the kicker is he won't even tell me why. As of this writing he is up here in NY/NJ visiting my family but refuses to see me. I thought I was close with him but I must have been under some sort of self delusion because he has been treating me like I was dead for this long, painful amount of time. I feel hurt but I also am angry because whatever it is he has against me, he won't even discuss not just with me but my ex in Fla or my family here. Up until about 2 years ago I was just hurt but then I started getting this overwhelming feeling of anger caused by me seeing this as a betrayal because he won't even give me a chance to apologize or even tell me what I did. It's a strange situation and I hate discussing it but I know I need to talk about it. I would like to find a live group in the NYC area, specifically but not limited to Brooklyn.
samson61 samson61
51-55, M
1 Response Jan 10, 2013

You must feel wretched and I'm so sorry for you.
If he won't identify the problem, how can you begin to put it right? I can understand how hurt and angry you must feel.