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Not Anymore

That's right boys and men be tough. Suck it up guys don't cry. Men are macho dudes. Don't show any emotion. Guys are the boss and don't forget it. Get a job, discipline the kids, and make the wife do what you want. Throw your weight around. Yell if you don't get what you want. This was how I was raised from birth to 13 years of age. It's bullshit. There is more to life than being a bastard that no one wants to be around.

Yes I have a feminine side. I'm exploring it everyday. We men need to show are feminine side. When you do you will find a more caring and nurturing side of you. Yes the male persona does come through when it needs to.

Perhaps that is why women have far more friends than men do. They care and listen to others. I get the feeling that with men it is all about competition. I tiers of competing. I will never be great at most things. The one thing I can do is be a kind and loving person. In order to do that I must drop all that macho crap and embrace the feminine side of me. The feminine side of me being she, is a lot more pleasant to be around. For years now more and more of my feminine is coming through. I no longer try try bury it but embrace it. She is a nice person and loves people. So yes let her out and see what she can become.

The feminine me.
Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 3 Responses May 12, 2012

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"women have far more friends than men do".. what women you got in your life? -i don't find that to be the case at all. i find women have acquaintances that they wish they were able to be closer to. that women are constantly struggling for closeness with female companions. women are great at having people they know and share times with.. but not consider real friends, as most women (i've experienced being close to) believe they are not truly understood. -I MEAN THIS IN NO WAY DISPARAGING WAY. women are my heroes.

Melodie, that really sums it up, "overall humanity."

Yes, Let it out, let your little girl breathe. I was fortunate to have a mom who saw my feminine side and helped it to blossom. She also saw my masculine side but let it grow on it's own. My life is now a wonderful blend of both, neither being dominant nor weak.

It has really helped me to understand people better, both genders.

I like the changes I've seen. I think I'm a better person by letting out my feminine side.

yes it adds to your overall humanity