My Wife Found Her For Us

It is hard to believe that it has been 5 years since we had our first FFM sexual relationship. My wife started a new job and very shortly afterwards, she was going out after work with the girls. And soon after that she started telling me that we should make plans to hang out with Melanie, one of the girls she worked with and with whom she was spending time with when they would go out.

We were, and are, a very healthy sexually compatible couple. We had fantasized about all sorts of sexual desires during our time together. The FFM ********* fantasy had been a part of our sex life for quite awhile. And while my wife didn't tell me that she wanted to go out with Melanie so we could have sex with her, it was only natural that if my wife was putting the three of us together, I was thinking that we could have a *********.

I don't really know for how long we talked about actually doing it with Melanie, but, at some point, we started talking about whether or not we really wanted to try it. We talked about how we would do it, who we would do it with, friend or stranger, her place, our place or a hotel, what kind of sex we would have, what we wanted to try and what we didn't want to try, what if one of us became more attracted to our third, what if she wanted more than just sex, what if we decided to have a relationship, could we have a relationship that included sex with another woman.

We also talked about other kinds of multiple partner sexual encounters but, it was clear to both of us, that the FFM is what we both wanted. During this time of exploring how we felt about taking the fantasy to the level of reality, my wife shared that she had had three lesbian relationships between the age of 16 and 21. This was very, very good news to me since I wanted to see her having sex with another woman. While we were in this process of talking about "really doing it" my wife was being pursued by a female friend who wanted to have sex with her! This was a married friend who she had known for 20 years but had lost touch with for awhile. My wife later told me that the friend was almost her fourth lesbian sexual experience.

When my wife told me about "the friend" who was pursuing her, she asked me if she could have sex with her. The short version of the story is, I said yes, even if I couldn't watch. So I only had a couple of requests, I had to hear every detail about how she had been flirting with her, then how she finally asked her to have sex, and of course, when they did have sex. Eventually, the three of us had sex but, that's another story. The reason that story is relevant to Melanie is that "the friend" really only wanted to have sex with my wife so she could entice us to have sex with them as a couple. After my wife had sex with the friend, she liked it and they had more sex. And each time they had sex, I got all of the details and we had incredible sex. Eventually, my wife told me that "the friend" wanted all four of us to have sex together. Well, that was not really what I wanted but, we had discussed a couples option and I knew I could do it as long as there was no male touching. My wife said she wanted too because she was really into her friend. Now that they had sex, she wanted to keep doing it. And if it meant she had to take another ****, she could do it. It wasn't ideal but, I was intrigued by her arousal and I wanted to see her and "the friend" together. And she wanted to see me have sex with the friend.

So we did the married friends (a couple times) and within a month or two, we both decided that it wasn't for us. When we broke it off with them, we told them it was nice but, we had other interests. What we really wanted was another girl, in an all out, no restrictions sexual encounter. So we started going out with Melanie and left the couple behind.

Over the next two months we started "dating" Melanie. The courting was great, lots of touching, lots of sexual suggestions, lots of dancing, lots of the girls kissing each other and me getting off on the two of them paying me lots of attention. I realized later, that when we walked into a bar, restaurant, club or event and I was with these two beautiful creatures, I freaking loved it. We hadn't had sex yet but, I know there were lots of people who were sure I was banging both of these girls, and I absolutely loved it when somebody asked me if I was, or implied that we were a *********. I loved the attention from other woman and from other men! Except for the occasional ****, it was all cool!

I also learned that all that sexual energy was very very positive in all kinds of ways. I felt a level of confidence in everything that I was doing that was truly unique. Eventually, we all realized that we were exuding a level of sexuality that was intoxicating for us and others we encountered. I can't tell you how often I got a free drink because the girls would kiss each other and then announce that they were going to the bathroom and then they would both kiss me. I have so many great stories about things that people did and said to us, another time.

On New Years Eve 2007 we went out to a party at a restaurant that had a band we liked. At this point, we had been dating for about 6 weeks. So we go all dressed up, had dinner, dancing, drinking and partying until we rang in 2008 with the countdown. After the band did the toast and everyone was kissing and the three of us were kissing each other, the lead singer announced to the crowd that "hey everyone get out on the dance floor with this sexy ********* (us) and start 2008 by doing what we all wanna do"!! Oh ya, at that point, I knew this was going to happen and I couldn't wait to get these two alone.

We left a little before closing, went back to her place and had the most amazing sex I've ever had. It is one of those sexual experiences that is impossible to forget. I can still remember the smell and sounds. We continued to date Melanie for the next 10 months. All total we were together for little more than a year. It was great sex and it was an incredible experience being with two women in a relationship, and I want to do it again. We only had one rule, Melanie and I could not have sex without my wife being there. And that rule was created because my wife loved watching Melanie and me have sex together, and we loved to let her watch.

One other really interesting thing happened during this time. My wife and I always had the most satisfying sex, the next time we had sex, after we had sex with Melanie. She would ****** four, five, ten times, it was epic.

Since then we have decided that only having a FFM is what we want. We never did another couple and she has never had another girl. We keep searching for someone else that we can have that kind of relationship with again. We have met women who were interested in sex but, not a relationship. We had sex with a few of them, including "the friend", once, after we broke up with Melanie. But the truth is, we both want another relationship with another woman that can be a third with both of us like we had before, like we had with Melanie. And this time we think we can make it last but, maybe it's just not destined to be. We want to give it a try!
HSJwscle HSJwscle
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Jan 7, 2013