Unwanted By My Mom

I was only 5 when my parents split up. I remember it like it was yesterday. Each month my mom had a new boyfriend & I was always begging her to just love with my Dad. I felt so confused & hurt. Me & my mom always fought, she kept me from my Dad for 5 years when I was 9 & moved out of town with this dude. Then after 5 years we moved back to Columbus & got to see my Dad again. Then me & my moms fighting got worse. She even told me she hated me b/c I look & act just like my Dad. After years the stuff she said & said stopped hurting me & I stopped crying over it. Then she let me move with my Dad FINALLY. After living with my Dad for some years, my mom got mad b/c we proved to her that we could make it without her. Just this April my Dad got hit & killed by a car right infront of me. Ever since his death I've felt alone. When my Dad got killed my mom picked me up from the scene & on our way to the police station she told me that when I go back to her house I had to be quiet b/c her boyfriend was sleeping. I was pissed b/c I just saw my Dad get killed & she's worried about her boyfriend.
daddysgurl92 daddysgurl92
1 Response Dec 26, 2012

I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. & I hope things get better between you and your mom. But, I'm sure your mom loves you with all her heart, try telling her how you feel in a calm, mature way. & your dad will always be with you. I'm praying for you, because a girl's dad is so important in her life.

I've tried to tell her & she just says "ok" or "oh" & thanks that means sooo much to me.

You're very welcome. How old are you?

I just turned 20

So soon you can move out and not have to deal with her anymore.

I haven't lived with my mom since I was like 15.

It just hurts the way she treats me when I'm around her.

I'm sorry about that. I hope things get better.


You're so very welcome

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