Psycho Jealous Baby-mama Phone & Internet StalkerMy boyfriend has a child with a woman he had an affair with 9 years ago. Because they have a child together, and she lives in his neighborhood, she has stalked every single person he's dated since. Up until he met me, most of his relationships lasted about 3 months before this woman did something to terrorize the new lady.
I live about 3 hours away from my boyfriend, and therefore it took this woman a while longer to find out about me. About two years to be exact.
About a year ago my boyfriend had lent his son his iPhone to play a game on, and she snatched it away from his son until she could pull all my info out of it. She emailed me to tell me the two of them were presently married! I was shocked, but then also sort of weirded out. She couldn't send me a wedding photo, even though she willing sent me pics of herself and their son.
I talked to him, and he explained she was bat-**** crazy.
I also did a court record search and confirmed that no such marriage ever existed. She then called my unlisted cell, and home numbers repeatedly at all times of the day and night. I blocked her number. She got another cell number and called again with death threats.
I told her I was breaking up with him, because they should be together. (This was not true, but it stopped her calls).
She believed this for another year... until we got engaged.
I'm not sure how, but she found out about the engagement about two weeks after it happened.
She has gotten a new number and is calling again, claiming to be married to my boyfriend, and then alternating her calls with death threats.
I don't actually pick up the phone when I see an unfamiliar number. So she leaves messages!!!
I'm only thankful she does not drive nor actually know where I live!
Today I am filing a restraining order against her.
I am nervous about getting married. I wonder if she's actually dangerous. I am urging my boyfriend to get social services involved so he can eventually gain full-custody of their son. He doesn't want to do it, because he says he's afraid it'll hurt his kid. I know I can't be mom to his son, but I am also convinced that the woman who is, is not a good influence.
oggief 36-40, F 6 Responses 1 Feb 16, 2011