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Full Term Baby, Cord Around Neck

I was 38 weeks pregnant when i went for my  last sono to check position of baby, thats when they found no heartbeat which i couldn't believe because the baby was extremely active the whole pregnancy especially the night before, i had to wait 2 days to get admitted to the hospital and another 2 days before my baby boy Brody was born a stillborn, the cord was wrapped around his neck 4 times and around his body also, he was born on 8/24/2010 at 6pounds 6 ounces,  this is the hardest and the most hurtful thing i have ever gone through its only 3 weeks and i cry all the time, i do have pictures of him and when i see him he looks so perfect and i feel like i dissapointed him on life which i know it's not my fault but just cant help but to question (what could have been), for anyone going through this horrible tradgedy, my heart goes out to you all. As for me i can only take one day at a time
nikkiki nikkiki 31-35 9 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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I totally understand how you feel. I gave birth to my lil boy at the beginning of December at 28 weeks, this was also a cord accident (the cord was round his neck twice) he was absolutely perfect. It eats at me day in and day out, all i think about is our lil man and how could this happen to us. I just wish I had an answer as to why this happened. My partner keeps saying we have been robbed in a very big way :( xx

i understand how u feel i had a stillborn 9 years again i was in the hospital for 15 days before my son heart stop beating i had 3 kids before him but they was taken away by DHS 2 years before but now i have a 8 year old son and a 5 year old girl

Our babies are in heaven. Check out the book, Heaven is for real, about a 4yr old boy who took a trip to heaven. They are so safe in our father's arms. Check out my story at www.babyevie.com. Sending up prayers for you!

I too, lost our beautiful baby girl last week. It was our first and we were so excited. We didn't know the gender and went in for our scheduled induction on Sunday night. I knew our baby's movements weren't the same, but of course, you think a stillborn cannot happen to you. I tried to remain positive and am still in a state of shock over everything. I was full term and cannot believe that for nine months I carried this precious baby and had to bury her instead of bringing her home. I am having a really hard time with this and the holidays and I feel such mixed emotions. Anger, sadness, shock and despair. I don't know if anyone else had any other children after their stillborn, but I would love to hear from you. I know the birth of a new child would never replace our beautiful Larissa, but we were so excited to be parents. I need to know if continuing your family helps in some small way to fill the void. Anyone feel this way?

my baby girl was stillborn just last week and i dont no how am going to get over it, the midwifes think it was the cord. I am so heartbroken she was so perfect and i just dont understand why this has happened. sorry for everyones lost

my baby girl was stillborn just last week and i dont no how am going to get over it, the midwifes think it was the cord. I am so heartbroken she was so perfect and i just dont understand why this has happened. sorry for everyones lost

Hello Nikki, I was just writing you again to see how you are doing? If you ever need to chat I am hear to listen. We both have gone through so much and it is still so shocking that such a thing can happen. If you ever want to talk just send me a message. God Bless!!

I am so sorry for your loss. I dont understand why these things have to happen and i never will. My son was stillborn on july 20th 2010 3lbs 6 oz. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during your time of need. God bless!!!

I'm so sorry to hear about your baby and for what you are going through. I can't imagine how tough it must be. I hope you can find some support.