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Unintended ********* - Advise Needed!!!!

About a year ago, my wife (Alicia) and i had her friend (Megan) from work over for a night of laughing and drinking. Megan was decent looking, but not anyone i had ever looked at in a sexual way. My wife is gorgeous and i had never really even thought about sex with another woman since we have been together.

The night started off as a typical night.... watching a couple of movies and mixing a few drinks. My wife had to be at work at around 9:00 the next morning, so we didn't plan on it becoming a very late night. We were all feeling quite buzzed, and things had started winding down, so i went in the garage to get the air mattress and set it up for Megan. She had been over before, and normally would sleep on the living room floor on an air mattress.

To give you a little background for my wife, she has for years battled sleeping problems and has been on medication to help. And sexually speaking, she has never been interested in having a ********* with anyone at all. It's something she has always been against, and considers sex to be a private matter. On that particular night, she decided to take her Ambien since she wanted to get a good night sleep for work. Well... if you're not familiar with Ambien, it has a few side effects, including a tendency to cause short term memory loss. In my wife though, she also has a tendency to become very horny and adventurous if she doesn't go to bed right away after taking it.

After about 20 minutes, i could tell she was beginning to feel the affects of her medication kicking in. She and i were still sitting on the couch together talking to Megan as she was settling in on the air mattress. My wife started rubbing her hand on my thigh, saying things like "i have a feeling Megan might hear us in bed tonight". She started kissing my neck and getting a bit more assertive in her sexual advances... and being buzzed like i was, i decided to kiss back. Before we knew it, we were in a full fledged make out session on our couch in front of Megan.

Eventually my wife slid off the couch and onto the air mattress next to Megan... pulling me down with her in the process. I was wearing boxer shorts at the time, and my erection was starting to easily show through the hole in the front. My wife felt it, grabbed it, and began stroking me with her palm facing upward. Megan, lying on her left side, was watching and laughing at her the whole time... but had that look on her face as if she was enjoying the view. My wife then suddenly took her shirt off exposing her braless breasts. One thing led to another, and we began having sex right next to her friend.

After a few minutes, my wife reached over to Megan and said something like "Wanna join?". I vividly remember Megan saying "Sure! Why not!"... and immediately taking her clothes off. She slid closer to my wife, and for the first time, i saw my wife kiss another woman. Megan eventually asked my wife what she was allowed to do.... and my wife answered with "Whatever you want.". From there, things progressed very quickly and we were all doing things i had only dreamed of in my wildest fantasies.

I remember Alicia and Megan lying naked, on top of each other, face to face.... making out while i kneeled behind them alternating who i had my **** inside. I remember Megan being VERY oral, and seemed to love the idea of sucking my **** and licking me clean of my wife's juices. And i remember my wife telling me at one point to "shoot my load inside Megan".... at which point Megan abruptly stopped me and said "No... i'm not on birth control. *** in my mouth instead." I obliged, and immediately put my semi-hard **** back inside of my wife to continue with her.

After a couple hours of exploration and kinky fun... the medication started to hit phase 2 with my wife. She was beginning to slow down, and lose interest, and i knew it was time to get her to bed. The realization started to creep over me that tomorrow she might not remember any of this... and might not approve of what happened. The next morning, my wife got up for work and left before Megan and I woke up. When i stumbled out of my bedroom that morning, i noticed that Megan was already up and packing up her stuff to leave. I sat out there and had small talk with her for a few minutes, and we started talking about last night. I mentioned the Ambien, and how sometimes my wife doesn't remember things... and how she might not approve of things that we all did last night. Megan agreed that we wouldn't bring it up around Alicia... and that it's better left unsaid.

To date, my wife has never mentioned it, and it remains our one and only *********. Now, i'm facing a new dilemma. Should i tell my wife what happened? My fear is that some day she will remember, or find out what happened... and then possibly accuse me of keeping it secret from her. I love my wife very much, and would never cheat on her... but on that particular night i went with the flow. We had all been drinking, and our judgment was impaired. At the time it felt like the right thing to do... but now i'm not sure. I don't know what to do, so any advise you all can give me would be appreciated. As you can probably tell though, i had a really great time, and wish this was something my wife would approve of!
markisneat markisneat 26-30, M 8 Responses Jun 29, 2011

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Should got a video. Then when subject does come up, your covered. Ask her friend if she could bring it up. This time a foursome?

The last thing i was thinking of when it all took place was to go find a video camera. Haha. I just went with it. But if the subject DOES come up again, i don't think it'll be coming from me.

Her friend has been over, but hasn't stayed the night. We've all hung gone out together with her new boyfriend (which wasn't as awkward as you'd think it might be), but haven't done anything like what happened that night. <br />
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And to date, i have not mentioned that night to my wife. I can't muster the courage! Sometimes i think it's better left alone, but there are times i feel like saying something.

Did her friend ever come back over?

I have to agree with 1Scotch on this one. I wouldn't bring it up. You should feel lucky you even got to experience it. Don't be greedy! It might screw things up. Just let things go and if she ever asks about that night then proceed to tell her what happened. If she does remember and says something about it then just be honest and don't be surprised by it. And yes, if she does feel to approve to do it another time... then work together on going for it on working by both terms. But like I said.... don't be greedy. :)

I am sorry to disagree with m2bf, I like him! But, she may not want to be complimented and hear all about it but I do agree that it should be discussed, but not necessarily with strong editorial comments about the night, maybe just some subtle comments and watch the reactions to decide how much to say.

well that was my first inclination to say... but I got lazy and went straight for the meat.

I'm sorry to disagree with 1goodguy65 - I like him. But, this event is part of your marriage and relationship. If it is her desire to be one time - ok. But if not, she expected you to tell her how magnificent she was and how honored you were that she shared her man with the friend.

Wow. <br />
What a fantasy!<br />
I might be wrong, but I believe if she wanted it while impaired, she has thought about while unimpaired and might consider doing it again.

I agree. Ask her what she remembers about that night. You could also consider asking her about a ********* again, get her response, and then after a few days or so, bring up that night. I would think that after a year, that it might be a bit difficult to discuss, but should be done. I think that the sooner the better though.