Well, on June 6th 2014, at 7am, I had a vasectomy, and I thought about it ever since I was 20 years old, and said if I don't have kids by the time I'm 25 or before that, then I'll never have any, and I don't really like kids that much, I dated a girl with one kid, that was the first girl I dated with a child, then I dated one with three, she was beautiful and amazing but, she had too many kids for me, I couldn't picture being with a girl with that many kids, only because I'm selfish and don't want to be put second to anyone especially children, I just can't imagine that ill feeling, and I knew this one girl for a year, and she has a kid, I dated her for a day, but we hung out for a while, but her kid is bad, but if I ever dated a girl with a kid again, I would only date her if she only had ONE child, just one. I think kids are annoying as hell, and most of the time they **** me off, I can't mentally handle them, the crying and especially the screaming. I had some supportive people when and before I had my vasectomy, but also others that were against it, like my dad, saying how that I'm going to meet a girl and she is going to leave me or cheat on me because I can't have kids, I told him, let the ***** leave, or let the ***** cheat, I always tell a girl right before I talk to her, that I've had it done, some get all pissed off and immature some don't, kids aren't for everyone though, have any other men had the same experiences I've had about their decision to get a vasectomy?
Gannicus89 Gannicus89
26-30, M
1 Response Aug 15, 2014

Oh no :( but maybe you were meant to have kids when you're 26 or 27. :(

It was my decison.

I thought long and hard about it.