An Affair 5 Years StrongI have been having an affair with a married man for 5 years now, longer than I have been married. It's a fantastic relationship based on a strong friendship, shared views on life and total honesty. Both our other partners are aware of our affair and as long as we are honest with everyone we are all happier for the experience.
He's my best friend, a great lover and I don't doubt that my life, and my marriage are stronger for being so close to him. He has taught me to open up about everything and how to love not only myself but others. Without my affair with this married man I wouldn't have fallen in love with my husband.
I think there has always been an unspoken rule to not fall in love with each other, and I have finally admitted I am in love with him. The 'in love' emotions have made things a bit difficult on my part... but i still love my husband and we have a great marriage and I would never break up anyone else's marriage, nor my own.
I know this affair will keep going strong and I know our friendship will last through anything.
Happy, healthy, married and having an affair!
ssshh32 31-35, F 14 Responses 4 Jul 6, 2010