One Night

Ladies please use protection AND birth control. I definitely learned my lesson and have no regrets about my abortion because I knew it was right for me & the people around me. My boyfriend of 3 years was messing with other females so I left him & started seeing other people. I was texting this one guy that I met at CVS for a little while & then one night we decided to hang out. I was 17 at the time & he was 19. He came and got me from my house and we went out to eat & saw a movie, then we went to his apartment later. We started kissing & then he just started kissing me EVERYWHERE. and then "it" just happened. I was sober, & even if i wasn't I would still know exactly what I was doing. So ladies that "I was drunk" excuse is getting old. you're intoxicated, not dead. Anyways I thought I could never get pregnant so that wasn't what I was worried about. I was more concerned about getting a STD. After that he wanted me to stay the night but I wanted to go home RIGHT AWAY. he took me home & as soon as I got in the house I deleted his phone number & all of our text messages. He called me the next day but I didn't pick up. That same week I got checked & I was clean. But the day of my birthday (December 18th) I felt so weird. I hated the smell of EVERYTHING & my attitude at work changed completely. I missed my period too but I still was in denial. I called one of my exes & told him how I was feeling, and that I missed my period. He said it with no cut cards, "YOU'RE PREGNANT". It wasn't till January 4th that I decided to take a pregnancy test. Went to get my nails done & while on my way home I decided to buy two pregnancy test from the dollar store. When I got home I went straight to the bathroom and took them. They BOTH came up positive. I knew it was from that guy cause he was the last person I had sex with. Abortion was my only option. The "Dad" has no idea and probably never will. Only people that knew were my ex bf, my best friend, & boyfriend. My ex went with me & the abortion took less than 5 mins (i got it done yesterday btw) I didn't feel anything. It was just like getting a pap done. A bit cramping after but nothing unbearable. I have no regrets at all, maybe because I was pregnant from someone that's considered a one night stand. I'm back with my boyfriend & I'm happy we're together again. Adoption is just something I could never do. I was always against abortion too but I just couldn't have a baby it was the wrong time. But I know everything happens for a reason & if its apart of Gods plan, my prince or princess will come when the time is right.
MileysQueen MileysQueen
2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

I had one too and if it was the right decision for you, but you won't regret it. I I was on antibiotics and got pregnant. I realized I missed my period and took a test. The I was excited for a week then it set in. I I went through with the abortion. I will never regret it. Sixth months later I became pregnant with a planned baby and she is asleep next to me now, 17 months old and perfect as ever. I would not have my girl if I didn't have my abortion. Good for you for doing what you needed to do. Stay strong girl <3

you don't know me or my situation, I barely had money for the abortion, im definitely not mentally or financially prepared for a child. yes there is women out there that want a child but I honestly could care LESS about them. we all have different problems & different reasons for our choice of abortion. I know abortion isn't right & you have no idea how I'm feeling right now, so your opinion is really not needed. You're saying things that I'm already aware of.

that was a terrible thing for him to say, and i have replied! don't let dip sh*ts get you down or make you feel guilty. i also had an abortion and know it was the best thing for me and my baby! you did the right thing!!! XXOO