Due to my wife's failing health I found myself living in a sexless marriage. I answered an ad on Craigslist from a young woman( almost 30 yrs younger than myself) who was looking for an older man to be a friend with benefits.... We carried on an affair for almost 2years & I truly fell in love with her.... To the point that if she had let me I would have left my wife for her...she was a true free spirit who it turns out was also bisexual.. Well after 2years time she met & fell in love with another woman!!! I had been so sure that she was my destiny that I had more or less lost interest in my marriage.. Due to my own carelessness my wife found out about the affair.... Not only that, she shared this info with our grown, married, children who instantly disowned me... I now have no relationship with my children or my grandkids & my life is in ruins... My wife and I have stayed together but, without me being included in our family & without the bond of a sex life between us things are looking pretty bleak! I feel like I made the biggest mistake of my life by allowing this to happen & there is nothing that I can do to repair the situation.... Has anyone else had a similar experience? I'd love to share with others in the same type situation..... Please reply...
Danpatty Danpatty
56-60, M
Aug 16, 2014