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Finding A Way

Did Don *** inside of me? The answer is yes, no and Maybe. I was concern about getting pregnant and after my first night with Don I asked him to use a condom. That was a mistake as it broke the first time he used it and leaked inside of me. He didn’t want to use a rubber and said he would withdraw before he came. We did this for awhile but I was always concern because I know men can have some pre-*** and sometimes I could see him pulling out as he was ***********.

I was on the pill when I was younger but it caused me to have medical issues. I made the decision to try it again so I could have full sex with Don and not have any worries. I never told my husband that I went back on the pill and he continued to use a condom when we had sex. This arraignment worked great for a year until I began having issues again and had to go off the pill.

Don went back to withdrawing before he came again but I wasn’t comfortable with this method. I tracked my menstrual cycle very carefully and began using the rhythm method for avoiding an unwanted pregnancy. This meant for two weeks a month I was ‘safe’ and whenever I was with Don during those periods, I would let him come inside of me.

My husband continued using a condom so if I had a ‘surprise’ I would know who the father was. I don’t know what I would have done if I did get pregnant, but fortunately I never had to find out.

emstioy emstioy 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2011

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Many women find the risk factor exciting and increasing of the about you?

My husband had a vasectomy and I had my tubes tied after the birth of my last child. I think the freedom I had from the possibility of a pregnancy was the key to my allowing it to happen, having sex with men other than my husband of fifteen years.