I Had An Affair

I had an affair, I made some bad choices. I regret everything I did. In fact I don't even know why I did it. Looking for attention is the only reason I can come up with. I've hurt the only women I truly love. Now we are trying to work it out and I feel lost, I want my wife and only my wife and am willing to change all my habits. Does anyone have any advise?
erack erack
41-45, M
2 Responses May 21, 2012

your only hope is a good marriage counselor....

My hubby had an affair as well! So I can sympathise with your wife! It is totally devastating!<br />
The best thing you can do is be totally honest with your wife, explain to her your feelings and why you did it, as much as this may hurt being totally truthful helped me,<br />
She will need time to start trusting you again and believe me I struggle daily, I found out end of feb and still cry every day! <br />
If you love each other enough you can make it work, hope u sort it out good luck x