Written on June 7th, 2012
My story is long and is posted on I am the other woman forum if you want to read...don't want to repeat. I will summarize. My MM and I were both married when we started our affair in 09, got caught a few weeks after we started, but got back together about 2 months after and were together ever since. Relationship grew...I left my husband (not for affair reasons...other reasons) last summer and mm and I became even closer. Talked about marriage, being together, moving in...and even talked about having a child. His wife found out in March and all I got from him was a text saying she knows...its over and don't look for me. She has been harassing me some and my separated husband gets harassed too. Its the wife because of info I have found out. Anyway...drama and stupid drama...I have 2 teenage children he has 3 children between the ages of 7 and 14. MM has completely distanced himself from me and refuses any contact. I tried to send a letter to him recently and he refused it. My question is who out there has been in similar situations but survived and went on to marry one another? My MM and I went through so much together I am having a hard time believing he would just disappear so coldly. I still have faith we will find one another again.