Man. Today is hard. Really hard. Just laying in bed wishing I never started the affair, wishing we never got caught, wishing I could just walk away from her, and wishing she was here with me. I realize it's going to get worse before it gets better, but when do I turn the corner and start climbing my way out of this depression? What steps do I take? I know I should go NC with her. I know it. I just can't do it.
confusedinpa7 confusedinpa7
41-45, M
4 Responses Aug 30, 2014

I saw your story. What would you like help with?

I just came across your story. Sorry you are having a tough time. And yes, it's difficult having no contact. Good luck to you

Thank you, court.?. I much appreciate your wishes

If the affair has completely ended, you probably should have NC. If you still have contact, you both will not heal. I hope you make the right decision. Best to you.

you need to realize that you do not end up being with someone else by accident.