Affair With Son In Law, Now Pregnant

All you self-righteous people underneath (especially uwilldk97) - look at the date - 2007 ...

Get over it, people!

What ever happened to the baby ? How is she/he ?

give up the baby for adoption and don't admit screwing your SIL (say it was a one night stand with a stranger - use your imagination). being somewhat addicted to sex myself, the story is pretty hot but you have to limit the damage and there are a lot of really good people out there who would like nothing more than to raise that child in a loving home. good luck.

Like mother like daughter. You obviously both like the same kind of men. He also obviously likes you both. And you did not accidentally fail with you pills. You WANTED his baby because you "think" with your ovaries. Have a chat with your daughter and start sharing the guy and the kids openly. Your daughter's kids and her step brother/sister will have strong family resemblence. Polygamy isn't bad. With a little honesty you can be fondling his balls while he bangs your daughter, and vice versa.

This is not the end of the world for you. Stop condemning yourself. You did something very natural, after all we are sexual beings. We are never closer to our real self than when we are sexual. You were attracted to your son-in-law and there is nothing wrong with that. It is just those right wing prudes that would condemn you. (Find one of them that has not deviated from the norm at some point) You can work this out. Sit down with your son-in-law and develop a plan. You may even wish to include your daughter in the planning. Do not tell me that she never had a fantasy about f**king someone beside her husband. Regardless of what you decide about the baby, you can remain a close nit family. Talk to the polyamorous people and you will find that their families consist of more than one man and one woman. You are not a monster; you are a very caring and loving person. You can work this out so that everyone wins. What good would life be if it did not present a few challenges along the way?

What is wrong with you? There is no excuse for that! You don't even care about your daughters well being! You getting pregnant at 16 and deeming yourself a bad mother is a load of crap. There are 16 year olds who turn out to be phenomenal mothers. You single handed lay RUINED your daughters marriage! You and her **** of a husband. You ARE a monster! What is WRONG with you that is DISGUSTING you are a HORRIBLE parent and a HORRIBLE grandmother. You should've had the common sense to meet guys your own age but instead you were SELFISH AND IMMATURE. You don't deserve to have a family. You deserve to be alone. Get some ******* help. I wouldn't blame your daughter if she never talked to you again. You should NEVER have been given the privilege if being a mother. You DISGUST me. You don't have the RIGHT to make excuses because you made a CHOICE. A selfish, disgusting, evil, immature choice. I hope you pay for your actions to the fullest extent. If your daughter is smart and hasn't inherited your obvious stupidity and lack of common sense or morale, she will leave you too losers behind and never look back.

Don't degrade yourself. You made a mistake. All of us have opportunities to have extramaritual sex. I have done it with my neighbor. She was mywifes friend and was around a lot. They moved but it hurt our relationship.

I don't think the child should pay. Just have the baby, give it up for adoption. The child at least deserves that. And quit effing your son in law and move out and move on.

Of course u are a Monster..Yeah !!! Carrying ur selfish/unfaithful son in law's child..I'm feel sorry for the unborn child especially ur own daughter...Cheers n' Good Luck for ur monster secret for the rest of ur life...No..for ever

Things happen to the best of us. We all get into situation. I have the hots for my mom in law as well and wont think twice if the opportunity provided itself. And yes to all the righteous ones here, it seems like u never wandered. If u did not, great for you. If u did, stop preaching her.

My advice, if u havent yet.. let go of the baby. U did not want the baby in the first place. U wanted the sex. Keep it to that. And stop killing urself.

Out of all the millions of single men in the world you pick you son in law. That is stupid. The poor baby.

Wow.... uhhhh, I'm a kinky due and everything but this is just selfish and vulgar and disgusting and.... and ....and..... I hope its not true.

what you did was wrong but it doesn't mean it is all your fault but also your son-in-law's he also had the responsibility to say no but he didn't it is just one of those days when you chose to take temptation because you haven't had that desire in so long and if you talk about he baby try doing private adoption and if your daughter asks say your being a soragate because you still get paid in adoptions and stop the affair it will break your family and it should be in the past not the future

This world IS screwed!

mmmm so exciting story!



Why White Americans are so into I N C E S T?

You are a **** and a terrible excuse for a woman. I recently found out that my mom was sleeping with my husband and both the ******* kept it a secret for 2 whole years. You do not even know the pain that you are about to cause your children (both your daughter and the unborn one) I know that this post is almost 3 years old, but could not resist commenting- at least other wannabe mom-in-laws who wanna **** their daughter's husbands will know what horrible damage you inflict on your daughters who love and trust you.

Wow what a story! What ever came of this situation?

Hi: I have gone through deeply, what you did. I don't blame you so extremely, as most of the people do. For the facts we must not ignore the life you have had been leading. Separated over 15 years, missing a partner, which is basic need of a human. I see you are still young, have the capability of fertility to get pregnant. You really need a partner in your life.
I am not sure, as how you will take it. But it is truth that I am ready to be your partner, I will feel happy to have you in my life and of course will give of father to the baby. If you feel convenient, please write me: kuku1970@hotmail.com

Why does everyone talk about an abortion so cavalierly? Keep your mouth shut,
learn from your mistakes and put the baby up for adoption. Somewhere there
is a stable, loving couple who would be delighted to have that child.

Shame Shame shame

Yeah your lust got you in trouble and now the cost has to be paid. You are a selfish lady. I dont blame your daughter if she hates you for the rest of your life. You not only hurt her and her family. You thought only of your wicked self. Any mum that can do this to a daughter needs real help. I hope your daughter leaves that son in law too Yous make a good couple Both losers... Yous arent worthy of your daughters love.. The true will reveal its self in the end. You two creatures need Help Big time You Silly Woman . Get a life

wat the **** lady, u is a nasty ******* hoe with ur own son in law, get a ******* life, an abort that baby because ur daugther will ******* hate u for life, an stop ******* ur son in law, an tell ur daugther about it an get the **** out that house ur dumb ****

I been having an affair with my daughters husband for a year now. She thinks he comes over to help with gardening, ect we use any excuse he drops by for a quickie on the way home from work. She doesn't have sex with him so hes lonely without affection and he gets that from me. It is so passionate I want it to last forever although I know it won't. She spends all her time with the kids and I love them aswell but shes forgotten about him and when you think about it I'm actually keeping them together because he would go somewhere else and maybe leave his family it he wasn't having ex with me.

I just realised that this post is a couple of years old and that whatever you decided to do is long over. I hope everything turned out OK for you.

No need to feel like a monster. You didn't make your son in law have sex with you. He did it because that's what he wanted. Nor does it mean that he doesn't love his wife, only that he was horny and you were too. There is no need to tell anyone about having his baby. It would cause much more trouble than it would be worth. Tell your daughter that your pregnant with another mans baby and can't bring yourself to abort it. There are many grandmas raising there son's or daughter's babies so, maybe your daughter would be willing to take the job of being the mother of your baby, if you don't feel you are young enough to do it yourself. But, if you are going to raise the baby, keep the father's identity secret. That way you can have a loving relationship with all involved. To tell anyone will only bring heartache and alienation betweeen you and your daughter. She deserves more consideration than that, as the only innocent person, besides the baby, in this whole affair. anyway, that's my advise to you if you want to continue a relationship with your daughter and your grandchildren.

You are NOT a monster! You are HUMAN! If you found God then you know this! You do NOT belong to yourself if you have given yourself to God! I do not have the answer to your problem but I know that punishing yourself isn't going to resolve it or accomplish anything. It won't even make you feel better. Abortion is also not the answer. It would only serve to delay the inevitable publicity of your (and yes your son-in-laws) failing. There is going to be a lot of fallout regardless of how it comes out.

You should not blame just yourself it takes two to do what you did, I too have a very sexy mother inlaw and have fantasies about us, wish they would come true ! I know it's wrong but it's natural to be attracted to the other sex and only society says its wrong, so live life !

U made a bad mistake, and it is too late to admit what u done,

dont tell anyone about this, just leave ur daughter family, abort that child, ur daughter who welcomed u to her place u cheated on her with her own husband, u cant tell her what happened first sleeping with he r husband then getting pregnant ur daughter will hate u.

just leave and save ur image as a nice person, u dont wanna be hated.

i don't think you're a monster - i don't think any of us are monsters. if we were truly evil beings, then this world is screwed.



you're in a tough spot - but it's part of your life that you'll learn to deal with, accept, and move on.

Well it's not far fetched. My coworker had an affair with her father in law. Her children caught them kissing. It's not right but it can happen