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Affair With Son In Law, Now Pregnant

I have searched all over the web for this situation and I have yet to find anything that remotely correlates.  I lost my job a few months ago and I moved in my eldest daughter and family.  I will admit right here and now that I have always had a crush on her husband and have secretly lusted after him.  I have been divorced for over 15 years and have had very few male companions in my life since then.

When I moved in I took on a motherly type roll in the household and catered to everyone's needs.  My grandchildren, but especially my son in law.  I lusted after him, I seduced him and I entraped him.  One day he was swimming his laps in the pool and I came out in a 2 piece binkini that I purposely selected.  I entered the pool and interrupted his morning routine.  It was from that moment forward that I made my sexuality known to him and faluted myself to him.  A few weeks later we had intercourse for the first time, unprotected with primal lust and passion.  He filled a void that I had been missing for over 15 years.  I felt 25 years old again and gave no thoughts to my daughter or my two grandchildren.

I was not the best mother to begin with, I was pregnant initially at 16 and again at 19.  I was taught that sex was the key to keeping your man happy, which was wrong.  By age 26 I was divorced, alone and competing with my ex-husband who had again married a young bimbo who was now raising my kids.  I experimented with drugs and was very much strung out for 8 years or so until I found god.

The power I held over my son in law was intoxicating.  I was in love with him, we had sex in the pool, in the early hours of the morning trying not to wake anyone and even in his own bed.  At first I was careful and took my pill, but I lapsed on my prescription and missed my period.  I have not told him about this, I haven't told anyone.  I want to abort this baby but I cannot bring myself to this.  I cannot bring myself to admiting the truth to anyone.  I wish I were dead, I wish I had never had these feelings and pushed this issue.  I am pregnant and alone with my daughter's brother or sister inside of me.  I am a monster

littlejon63 littlejon63 46-50 350 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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Please stop judging yourself. You'll only make yourself more depressed and that won't help you make good decisions.

Do you want to be a mother again? Would you love this child? Would you do everything you could for it and more?

If so, then you might consider having the child. But you have to also think about what it means to carry a secret, and I think you'd have to carry the secret of who the father was to your grave. Although you will have to tell your child at some point who his or her father is. This should happen between the ages of ten and fifteen, I would think. So you have to be prepared for the information to come out at that point.

On the other hand, if you don't want the child, then you should have an abortion. Then you should get out of your daughter's house and live on your own. You should get therapy, and see if you can sort out your issues, and learn to make decisions you can live with.

Sorry dear, this do happen so the only advice i can give you is to keep the baby and pretend as if you dont know who impregnate you. So that you can keep your mother-daughter relationship as normal.

Act like you got knocked up after a night at a bar, then give the baby up for adoption.

You took what you thought you deserved and got what you deserved - BRAVO

My wife and I are both 23. We have a daughter. I stay at my in-laws place at their request. Just like you, I have frequent sex with my mom-in-law, 43. She's hot! Now my mom-in-law is 3 months pregnant!

Do you think that you are the dad?

You're a piece of ****. Congradulations.

Thank you for your helpful, informative contribution Courtney.
I'm so glad there's someone like you out there to stand high above us sinners on your own little moral high ground.
well done.

Sorry interpolnyc but you're pretty much alone in gutter territory apart from a few other slime balls

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nice experience...

I can only imagine the emotional turmoil you are experiencing. I also have a less than convention ally accepted sexual relationship with a family member. Recently the paternity of my 21 year old son has become questionable. I had never previously given it any thought but my brother in law/lover now claims to be the father. I haven't a clue how to handle the matter. I've been avoiding the topic and hoping the dog will find a new bone so to speak. I'm sure that's not a feasible approach to your situation. I would love to know how you handle the matter. In the meantime, should you need a sympathetic and nonjudgmental friend to whom you may candidly vent, I'd be more than pleased to be that person.

Why does the b-in-law want paternity? Is this a manhood issue or is there an underlying issue in his marriage?

Whew that is a tough situation. My suggestion to avoid a complete disaster would be to take your newborn out of the equation. By coming clean, the following will more than likely happen - 1. you'll lose your daughter for eternity 2. their marriage will inevitably be destroyed 3. you'll feel guilty for creating this mess even though he was a willing party. Hopefully you're able to find a suitable solution that works best for all parties! Wishing you luck here friend!

yeah, thats pretty f'd up.

Someone get this **** on Jerry Springer!!
This is so sad though. I feel terrible for your daughter. She has a crummy husband, and a crummy mom from the sound of it! Geez.

what if she can't stop ******* her sil

I can't agree more with everyone else, your daughter and grand children did nothing wrong. Don't cause them the hurt that they don't deserve. We all make mistake. You have to change your frame of mind and stop thinking about only yourself. Leave as soon as possible and leave your son in law behind. Enough is enough.

no its ok.....its what u wanted anyway..............have more babies by him while yu can.

lol

.. Your daughter's husband? That's sick . Before you make any decions on aborting the child . You should talk to the father first .

Please don't abort the baby.
It was wrong of your son in law to cheat on your daughter and it was wrong of both of you not to talk about this and not to be honest with your daughter.
What I want you to understand is yes you made a mistake but you are NOT a monster, you love this man and this baby is the fruit of your love, how could you kill him?? Please don't.
Yes the truth is hard, but the truth is better than a sweet lie, and it will make you feel better.
You DESERVE to be loved and I at least hope this man has some feelings for you, maybe he has feeling for both you and your daughter, I don't know but you all NEED TO TALK ASAP.
Much love to you, please don't be too hard on yourself and take care of your sweet baby.

I'm not going to lie and say what u did was ok. But u feeling wrong means that there is some good in u. So just admit ur fault to make a right from ur wrong. Do not abort that baby. Or u are a monster

I don't believe a word of that ****!

Rofl

Me too

Wow I heard so many stories like this is my life, but this one is sick. I just Thank God my Mother is not like tha

All you self-righteous people underneath (especially uwilldk97) - look at the date - 2007 ...

Get over it, people!

LOL. This comment has a negative like. XD

Oh, and it's 2009 not 2007

What ever happened to the baby ? How is she/he ?

Pretty sure she aborted it.

give up the baby for adoption and don't admit screwing your SIL (say it was a one night stand with a stranger - use your imagination). being somewhat addicted to sex myself, the story is pretty hot but you have to limit the damage and there are a lot of really good people out there who would like nothing more than to raise that child in a loving home. good luck.

<p>&nbsp;<p>Like mother like daughter. You obviously both like the same kind of men. He also obviously likes you both. And you did not accidentally fail off your pills. You WANTED his baby because you "think" with your ovaries. Have a chat with your daughter and start sharing the guy and the kids openly. Your daughter's kids and her step brother/sister will have strong family resemblence. Polygamy isn't bad. With a little honesty you can be fondling his balls while he bangs your daughter, and vice versa.</p><p></p>

This is not the end of the world for you. Stop condemning yourself. You did something very natural, after all we are sexual beings. We are never closer to our real self than when we are sexual. You were attracted to your son-in-law and there is nothing wrong with that. It is just those right wing prudes that would condemn you. (Find one of them that has not deviated from the norm at some point) You can work this out. Sit down with your son-in-law and develop a plan. You may even wish to include your daughter in the planning. Do not tell me that she never had a fantasy about f**king someone beside her husband. Regardless of what you decide about the baby, you can remain a close nit family. Talk to the polyamorous people and you will find that their families consist of more than one man and one woman. You are not a monster; you are a very caring and loving person. You can work this out so that everyone wins. What good would life be if it did not present a few challenges along the way?

I love your response, perfect, in every word.
I have a vary similar story the mother in law was very lonely and just needed someone and In my own way I needed her too. In fact the daughter even gave permission for me to be with her mother. The mother doesn't know that the daughter knows, however.
And thanks again for being, well, above these judgmental fools.

What is wrong with you? There is no excuse for that! You don't even care about your daughters well being! You getting pregnant at 16 and deeming yourself a bad mother is a load of crap. There are 16 year olds who turn out to be phenomenal mothers. You single handed lay RUINED your daughters marriage! You and her **** of a husband. You ARE a monster! What is WRONG with you that is DISGUSTING you are a HORRIBLE parent and a HORRIBLE grandmother. You should've had the common sense to meet guys your own age but instead you were SELFISH AND IMMATURE. You don't deserve to have a family. You deserve to be alone. Get some ******* help. I wouldn't blame your daughter if she never talked to you again. You should NEVER have been given the privilege if being a mother. You DISGUST me. You don't have the RIGHT to make excuses because you made a CHOICE. A selfish, disgusting, evil, immature choice. I hope you pay for your actions to the fullest extent. If your daughter is smart and hasn't inherited your obvious stupidity and lack of common sense or morale, she will leave you too losers behind and never look back.

Don't degrade yourself. You made a mistake. All of us have opportunities to have extramaritual sex. I have done it with my neighbor. She was mywifes friend and was around a lot. They moved but it hurt our relationship.

Of course u are a Monster..Yeah !!! Carrying ur selfish/unfaithful son in law's child..I'm feel sorry for the unborn child especially ur own daughter...Cheers n' Good Luck for ur monster secret for the rest of ur life...No..for ever

Things happen to the best of us. We all get into situation. I have the hots for my mom in law as well and wont think twice if the opportunity provided itself. And yes to all the righteous ones here, it seems like u never wandered. If u did not, great for you. If u did, stop preaching her.

My advice, if u havent yet.. let go of the baby. U did not want the baby in the first place. U wanted the sex. Keep it to that. And stop killing urself.

We're not being righteous we're being considerate if other people's feelings. Get it straight. We're not preaching if she didnt want us saying opposing things then she should keep her dirty secret to herself.

Out of all the millions of single men in the world you pick you son in law. That is stupid. The poor baby.

Wow.... uhhhh, I'm a kinky due and everything but this is just selfish and vulgar and disgusting and.... and ....and..... I hope its not true.

what you did was wrong but it doesn't mean it is all your fault but also your son-in-law's he also had the responsibility to say no but he didn't it is just one of those days when you chose to take temptation because you haven't had that desire in so long and if you talk about he baby try doing private adoption and if your daughter asks say your being a soragate because you still get paid in adoptions and stop the affair it will break your family and it should be in the past not the future