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Affair With Son In Law, Now Pregnant

I have searched all over the web for this situation and I have yet to find anything that remotely correlates.  I lost my job a few months ago and I moved in my eldest daughter and family.  I will admit right here and now that I have always had a crush on her husband and have secretly lusted after him.  I have been divorced for over 15 years and have had very few male companions in my life since then.

When I moved in I took on a motherly type roll in the household and catered to everyone's needs.  My grandchildren, but especially my son in law.  I lusted after him, I seduced him and I entraped him.  One day he was swimming his laps in the pool and I came out in a 2 piece binkini that I purposely selected.  I entered the pool and interrupted his morning routine.  It was from that moment forward that I made my sexuality known to him and faluted myself to him.  A few weeks later we had intercourse for the first time, unprotected with primal lust and passion.  He filled a void that I had been missing for over 15 years.  I felt 25 years old again and gave no thoughts to my daughter or my two grandchildren.

I was not the best mother to begin with, I was pregnant initially at 16 and again at 19.  I was taught that sex was the key to keeping your man happy, which was wrong.  By age 26 I was divorced, alone and competing with my ex-husband who had again married a young bimbo who was now raising my kids.  I experimented with drugs and was very much strung out for 8 years or so until I found god.

The power I held over my son in law was intoxicating.  I was in love with him, we had sex in the pool, in the early hours of the morning trying not to wake anyone and even in his own bed.  At first I was careful and took my pill, but I lapsed on my prescription and missed my period.  I have not told him about this, I haven't told anyone.  I want to abort this baby but I cannot bring myself to this.  I cannot bring myself to admiting the truth to anyone.  I wish I were dead, I wish I had never had these feelings and pushed this issue.  I am pregnant and alone with my daughter's brother or sister inside of me.  I am a monster

littlejon63 littlejon63 46-50 351 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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Surely you don't think you're the first or last in this scenario. It's an old-old trope dating back before the printing press. Mostly fantasy bait for both 18-24 year-old young husbands with a reasonably hot 40-something MiL or for 38-44 year-old MiL's who think they'd like to be a cougar but don't have the knockers to go out and do it outside their own house. Banging your MiL or SiL is easy pickings - no big deal. Hell, it was the main plot device of a daytime drama (soap opera) not too many years ago. It's pretty common indeed. Husbands banging the daughter-in-law isn't all that uncommon either, at least with that one the DNA test matches up and it can stay secret. Banging the MiL is usually a lot safer, she's usually too old to knock up.

So you got knocked up? So what? It's 2015 not 1820. Sit your daughter down and let her know she's getting a new brother or sister. Like the other 50-some-odd-percent of other women who conceive, you're not married - nobody cares anymore. One-third of those have no idea who knocked them up, at least you're a step ahead of those.

Don't want to tell everyone exactly what evil stuff you did? Don't. Nobody cares anymore. It's a new age - sin with full impunity these days.

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You have a right to keep your child if that is what you want. No one can judge you. I'm here and this community is here if you need to talk to someone.


Most likely your daughter will disown you. I'm sorry but yes you are a monster.


Hot damn, I wish I was the pool boy.

You aren't a monster. If you have other lovers, keep the baby and no one needs to know who's it is. Let them assume it is your lovers baby and you have no plans of marrying him.

Please stop judging yourself. You'll only make yourself more depressed and that won't help you make good decisions.

Do you want to be a mother again? Would you love this child? Would you do everything you could for it and more?

If so, then you might consider having the child. But you have to also think about what it means to carry a secret, and I think you'd have to carry the secret of who the father was to your grave. Although you will have to tell your child at some point who his or her father is. This should happen between the ages of ten and fifteen, I would think. So you have to be prepared for the information to come out at that point.

On the other hand, if you don't want the child, then you should have an abortion. Then you should get out of your daughter's house and live on your own. You should get therapy, and see if you can sort out your issues, and learn to make decisions you can live with.

Sorry dear, this do happen so the only advice i can give you is to keep the baby and pretend as if you dont know who impregnate you. So that you can keep your mother-daughter relationship as normal.

Act like you got knocked up after a night at a bar, then give the baby up for adoption.

You took what you thought you deserved and got what you deserved - BRAVO

Who cares? She deserves every bit of hate she has received. She made her own bed. And don't come here with that "she made a mistake" bullshit. I know you ****** love to throw that one out.

My wife and I are both 23. We have a daughter. I stay at my in-laws place at their request. Just like you, I have frequent sex with my mom-in-law, 43. She's hot! Now my mom-in-law is 3 months pregnant!

Do you think that you are the dad?

You're a piece of ****. Congradulations.

Thank you for your helpful, informative contribution Courtney.
I'm so glad there's someone like you out there to stand high above us sinners on your own little moral high ground.
well done.

nice experience...

Whew that is a tough situation. My suggestion to avoid a complete disaster would be to take your newborn out of the equation. By coming clean, the following will more than likely happen - 1. you'll lose your daughter for eternity 2. their marriage will inevitably be destroyed 3. you'll feel guilty for creating this mess even though he was a willing party. Hopefully you're able to find a suitable solution that works best for all parties! Wishing you luck here friend!

yeah, thats pretty f'd up.

Someone get this **** on Jerry Springer!!
This is so sad though. I feel terrible for your daughter. She has a crummy husband, and a crummy mom from the sound of it! Geez.

what if she can't stop ******* her sil

no its ok.....its what u wanted anyway..............have more babies by him while yu can.


.. Your daughter's husband? That's sick . Before you make any decions on aborting the child . You should talk to the father first .

Please don't abort the baby.
It was wrong of your son in law to cheat on your daughter and it was wrong of both of you not to talk about this and not to be honest with your daughter.
What I want you to understand is yes you made a mistake but you are NOT a monster, you love this man and this baby is the fruit of your love, how could you kill him?? Please don't.
Yes the truth is hard, but the truth is better than a sweet lie, and it will make you feel better.
You DESERVE to be loved and I at least hope this man has some feelings for you, maybe he has feeling for both you and your daughter, I don't know but you all NEED TO TALK ASAP.
Much love to you, please don't be too hard on yourself and take care of your sweet baby.


I'm not going to lie and say what u did was ok. But u feeling wrong means that there is some good in u. So just admit ur fault to make a right from ur wrong. Do not abort that baby. Or u are a monster

I don't believe a word of that ****!


Me too

Wow I heard so many stories like this is my life, but this one is sick. I just Thank God my Mother is not like tha

What ever happened to the baby ? How is she/he ?

Pretty sure she aborted it.

give up the baby for adoption and don't admit screwing your SIL (say it was a one night stand with a stranger - use your imagination). being somewhat addicted to sex myself, the story is pretty hot but you have to limit the damage and there are a lot of really good people out there who would like nothing more than to raise that child in a loving home. good luck.

<p>&nbsp;<p>Like mother like daughter. You obviously both like the same kind of men. He also obviously likes you both. And you did not accidentally fail off your pills. You WANTED his baby because you "think" with your ovaries. Have a chat with your daughter and start sharing the guy and the kids openly. Your daughter's kids and her step brother/sister will have strong family resemblence. Polygamy isn't bad. With a little honesty you can be fondling his balls while he bangs your daughter, and vice versa.</p><p></p>

This is not the end of the world for you. Stop condemning yourself. You did something very natural, after all we are sexual beings. We are never closer to our real self than when we are sexual. You were attracted to your son-in-law and there is nothing wrong with that. It is just those right wing prudes that would condemn you. (Find one of them that has not deviated from the norm at some point) You can work this out. Sit down with your son-in-law and develop a plan. You may even wish to include your daughter in the planning. Do not tell me that she never had a fantasy about f**king someone beside her husband. Regardless of what you decide about the baby, you can remain a close nit family. Talk to the polyamorous people and you will find that their families consist of more than one man and one woman. You are not a monster; you are a very caring and loving person. You can work this out so that everyone wins. What good would life be if it did not present a few challenges along the way?

I love your response, perfect, in every word.
I have a vary similar story the mother in law was very lonely and just needed someone and In my own way I needed her too. In fact the daughter even gave permission for me to be with her mother. The mother doesn't know that the daughter knows, however.
And thanks again for being, well, above these judgmental fools.

What is wrong with you? There is no excuse for that! You don't even care about your daughters well being! You getting pregnant at 16 and deeming yourself a bad mother is a load of crap. There are 16 year olds who turn out to be phenomenal mothers. You single handed lay RUINED your daughters marriage! You and her **** of a husband. You ARE a monster! What is WRONG with you that is DISGUSTING you are a HORRIBLE parent and a HORRIBLE grandmother. You should've had the common sense to meet guys your own age but instead you were SELFISH AND IMMATURE. You don't deserve to have a family. You deserve to be alone. Get some ******* help. I wouldn't blame your daughter if she never talked to you again. You should NEVER have been given the privilege if being a mother. You DISGUST me. You don't have the RIGHT to make excuses because you made a CHOICE. A selfish, disgusting, evil, immature choice. I hope you pay for your actions to the fullest extent. If your daughter is smart and hasn't inherited your obvious stupidity and lack of common sense or morale, she will leave you too losers behind and never look back.

Don't degrade yourself. You made a mistake. All of us have opportunities to have extramaritual sex. I have done it with my neighbor. She was mywifes friend and was around a lot. They moved but it hurt our relationship.

Of course u are a Monster..Yeah !!! Carrying ur selfish/unfaithful son in law's child..I'm feel sorry for the unborn child especially ur own daughter...Cheers n' Good Luck for ur monster secret for the rest of ur life...No..for ever

Things happen to the best of us. We all get into situation. I have the hots for my mom in law as well and wont think twice if the opportunity provided itself. And yes to all the righteous ones here, it seems like u never wandered. If u did not, great for you. If u did, stop preaching her.

My advice, if u havent yet.. let go of the baby. U did not want the baby in the first place. U wanted the sex. Keep it to that. And stop killing urself.

We're not being righteous we're being considerate if other people's feelings. Get it straight. We're not preaching if she didnt want us saying opposing things then she should keep her dirty secret to herself.

Out of all the millions of single men in the world you pick you son in law. That is stupid. The poor baby.

Wow.... uhhhh, I'm a kinky due and everything but this is just selfish and vulgar and disgusting and.... and ....and..... I hope its not true.

what you did was wrong but it doesn't mean it is all your fault but also your son-in-law's he also had the responsibility to say no but he didn't it is just one of those days when you chose to take temptation because you haven't had that desire in so long and if you talk about he baby try doing private adoption and if your daughter asks say your being a soragate because you still get paid in adoptions and stop the affair it will break your family and it should be in the past not the future

This world IS screwed!

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You are a **** and a terrible excuse for a woman. I recently found out that my mom was sleeping with my husband and both the ******* kept it a secret for 2 whole years. You do not even know the pain that you are about to cause your children (both your daughter and the unborn one) I know that this post is almost 3 years old, but could not resist commenting- at least other wannabe mom-in-laws who wanna **** their daughter's husbands will know what horrible damage you inflict on your daughters who love and trust you.

I'm sorry to hear this has happened to you. I just can't grasp it. I hope you have been able to heal and move on. No one deserves this kind of pain.

Wow what a story! What ever came of this situation?

Hi: I have gone through deeply, what you did. I don't blame you so extremely, as most of the people do. For the facts we must not ignore the life you have had been leading. Separated over 15 years, missing a partner, which is basic need of a human. I see you are still young, have the capability of fertility to get pregnant. You really need a partner in your life.
I am not sure, as how you will take it. But it is truth that I am ready to be your partner, I will feel happy to have you in my life and of course will give of father to the baby. If you feel convenient, please write me:

Why does everyone talk about an abortion so cavalierly? Keep your mouth shut,
learn from your mistakes and put the baby up for adoption. Somewhere there
is a stable, loving couple who would be delighted to have that child.

Shame Shame shame

Yeah your lust got you in trouble and now the cost has to be paid. You are a selfish lady. I dont blame your daughter if she hates you for the rest of your life. You not only hurt her and her family. You thought only of your wicked self. Any mum that can do this to a daughter needs real help. I hope your daughter leaves that son in law too Yous make a good couple Both losers... Yous arent worthy of your daughters love.. The true will reveal its self in the end. You two creatures need Help Big time You Silly Woman . Get a life

wat the **** lady, u is a nasty ******* hoe with ur own son in law, get a ******* life, an abort that baby because ur daugther will ******* hate u for life, an stop ******* ur son in law, an tell ur daugther about it an get the **** out that house ur dumb ****

I been having an affair with my daughters husband for a year now. She thinks he comes over to help with gardening, ect we use any excuse he drops by for a quickie on the way home from work. She doesn't have sex with him so hes lonely without affection and he gets that from me. It is so passionate I want it to last forever although I know it won't. She spends all her time with the kids and I love them aswell but shes forgotten about him and when you think about it I'm actually keeping them together because he would go somewhere else and maybe leave his family it he wasn't having ex with me.

You are another silly woman who needs help You and that son inlaw are losers. I hope your daughter is strong to let you both out of her life
She derserves better than having a **** mother and a srewed ****** husband Shame on both of you

People like you should be shot. Do you realise animals have more respect for themselves and their off spring than you?

Actually, some don't...

you are a lousy *****. you and littlejohn need to get together and find some men that aren't married to your daughters. the man shortage isn't that bad!

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I just realised that this post is a couple of years old and that whatever you decided to do is long over. I hope everything turned out OK for you.

No need to feel like a monster. You didn't make your son in law have sex with you. He did it because that's what he wanted. Nor does it mean that he doesn't love his wife, only that he was horny and you were too. There is no need to tell anyone about having his baby. It would cause much more trouble than it would be worth. Tell your daughter that your pregnant with another mans baby and can't bring yourself to abort it. There are many grandmas raising there son's or daughter's babies so, maybe your daughter would be willing to take the job of being the mother of your baby, if you don't feel you are young enough to do it yourself. But, if you are going to raise the baby, keep the father's identity secret. That way you can have a loving relationship with all involved. To tell anyone will only bring heartache and alienation betweeen you and your daughter. She deserves more consideration than that, as the only innocent person, besides the baby, in this whole affair. anyway, that's my advise to you if you want to continue a relationship with your daughter and your grandchildren.

You are NOT a monster! You are HUMAN! If you found God then you know this! You do NOT belong to yourself if you have given yourself to God! I do not have the answer to your problem but I know that punishing yourself isn't going to resolve it or accomplish anything. It won't even make you feel better. Abortion is also not the answer. It would only serve to delay the inevitable publicity of your (and yes your son-in-laws) failing. There is going to be a lot of fallout regardless of how it comes out.

You should not blame just yourself it takes two to do what you did, I too have a very sexy mother inlaw and have fantasies about us, wish they would come true ! I know it's wrong but it's natural to be attracted to the other sex and only society says its wrong, so live life !

U made a bad mistake, and it is too late to admit what u done,<br />
dont tell anyone about this, just leave ur daughter family, abort that child, ur daughter who welcomed u to her place u cheated on her with her own husband, u cant tell her what happened first sleeping with he r husband then getting pregnant ur daughter will hate u.<br />
just leave and save ur image as a nice person, u dont wanna be hated.

sound advice

No it isn't. Make sure your sins will find you out!

i don't think you're a monster - i don't think any of us are monsters. if we were truly evil beings, then this world is screwed. <br />
<br />
you're in a tough spot - but it's part of your life that you'll learn to deal with, accept, and move on.

This world has been screwed many times....over and over.

Well it's not far fetched. My coworker had an affair with her father in law. Her children caught them kissing. It's not right but it can happen

You Know your so right, I have a female friend and she was living at her boyfriends parents house, his father was teaching her to drive and that was the start of a two year affair. Thats was twenty years age and she still keeps in contact woth them both. she still has them over for christmas dinner every year. I guess it's the getting pregnant thing thats that makes this even worse . I might add that she has had five kids with five diffrent fathers and she has no morals.She even wanted to have sex with me, but I'm a happy maried man, and she knows it, but still would love to knotch me to her bed head

dose your daughter know that you are pregnant because of her hubby?

And now you are pregnant with your daughters brother? duh!!!

Again like another comment. YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE DONE THAT! Not only have you crossed a massive thick huge line, you still continue to do it, Forget the past and what you did or how old you were, You have obviously lost your commen sense. I feel for your daughter sincerely and i hope you make the right decision. You should have looked at him like your son in law not your new toy boy (no offense). I think the whole situation is sick. Good luck sorting that one.

This can't be true, no mother would do! this thats all i have to say

Mothers are human also.



you are hot!!! Nothing wrong with what you did!

Do what you feel is best. Though morally you should know this would crush your daughter, so if I were you I would take this secret to the grave.

hi this is max and i m love with u so pls dont cry i m 28 and i love i wanna merriy with u pls

LOL. Wtf, an admirer...

I hope this is not for real.Your own daughter. That is mean ans spiteful

Dear littlejon63, Yes you made some big mistakes and now you feel alone. My heart goes out to you. I don't have the right answer for you on this, perhaps you should go to God in prayer. I would like to help you if you would except my help. I am not talking abortion, this can be handled in the right way that in years to come no one will look back and have any regrets. respond to this post if you are interested in hearing my idea.

You found God, really.......where'd you lose him? Horrible, horrible betrayal to your daughter, pathetic!

Such a pathetic made-up story for someone to get attention with!

You should be talking to your son in law about this.

i think monster pretty much covered it. this story blows my mind that a human being could do that to their own

This is what sexual attraction and lust does to the world.

You are sick human being. How could you do that to your daughter? How dare you! You are her mother and she trusted you. For the sake of your future child I hope you give it up for adoption, clearly even in your old age you are not a suitable nor mature enough of a person to take care of a living being. I hope your daughter divorces that scum bag and takes herself and her children as far away from you has possible. You're a monster.

your not pregnant. you're menopausal. if you're aged 46-50 chances are... you ain't pregnant

Maybe they are disgusing themselves as a guy.

maybe so

Have the baby or abort but I think you should not tell anyone in your family about the affair. The shame and guilt will not go away, it will be worse since people you love will hate you forever on top of still feeling like crap about yourself. Find a job, move out, get therapy, move on.

What about her daughter? Not only did her husband cheat, but he cheated with her disgusting mother? The grandmother to her children.

what can i say u are wrong and he is too,tell your daughter what went down and move out now,,,sorry to ear...............

You aren't a monster, you are just utterly confused. If you keep the baby you have to face the realization that your daughter will find out an so will your grandchildren, and as children that would be traumatizing. If you don't keep the baby that is your decision, and you shouldn't be judged for it. Was it the best decision? No. But it's up to you to fix the situation. Obviously this man is okay with cheating on your daughter, if not with you than it could have been anyone else. Do you want more for your daughter? You honestly should. Just think long and hard about this.

You shouldn't want that for your daughter*

The devil is on a path to destroy you, wake up! seek spiritual deliverance or else destruction is surely coming your way.

OMG!! why do men coment on stuff like this and think its a good thing im 18 years of age and even i know this is wrong if that was my mum with my fanicee i would not let her have anthing to do with my kids shed lose me aer grand children and if you get rid of that child that is sick , it didnt asck to be created you cannont kill that baby just cuse of your stupid action he is just as bad as you but like you said you allways wanted your time with him now that you got it your pregnat to your daghters husban not only is that wrong you are also meant to be her mum mums do not do that you do know you will get caught and she will find out soon and then her and her husband will split and ur grandchildren will have no father and will be from a broken home and they will grow up hateing you so you deserv everthing thats comen to you

nice if i had a wife.. i wish you to be... so hot mom... love it


People make mistakes and this is a big one being honest with ur daughter is the best way to start ur path to forgivness and as for her husband if ur not honest then what will happen if he does it again it will crush ur daughter even more. She needs to know what happened and then just give her space. Her husband is also at fault for what happened. Like other people said get prefeesional help or find someone to talk to. This is not something u want to bottle up inside. As for the abortion part well think about this there r millions of families that can love that baby if u decide to give it up. If you are planing on keeping it then my prayers go out to u and wish u the best of luck. Wishing you were dead or thinking about it will only hurt the people around u even more. I have had alot of people comit suicide in the last two years and it is a pain that i would not wish upon anyone. Bad things happen and we make mistakes tell ur daughter and what ever happens from then is in gods hands.

You are a vile human being. Can not fathom what kind of a sick ***** could sleep with her daughters husband. Your poor daughter. You sound like a prostitute with no morals! Disgusting.

Yup. Total monster. How dare you! He's not yours. You're a crappy mother. You don't deserve that family. Go hide yourself in shame.

I cannot believe that so many people have sympathy for you. You put yourself in this situation and you deserve whatever happens to you. Your daughter and grandchildren, on the other hand, are the victims! They invited you into their homes and made you feel welcomed and you repaid them by destroying everything. What you did will forever change who they are and how they love. SHAME ON YOU AND HIM!!!

Put up for adoption or abort. Yes, getting rid of a life is horrible but this is ****** and the baby may have health problems. Also think about how the baby would feel once he/she found out.<br />
Move out of your daughter's house, tell her everything. She deserves to know what type of husband she has.

you are officially crazy old woman, you should hang yourself and die. that's the only way out.

Wow. I really hope that story isn't true. If it is, then you are a horrible mother.

its not a monster and you know it,its a baby and if you think it will create so much problems in the household just tell that you have a night stand affair and then you are drunk and then it happen and that was the result and i guess its time to move out so you wont feel bad on your daughter and create more problem to everyone...

Found God and then had an affair with your daughters huspand while she housed you.....nice. Goodluck with the pregnancy. Its always your choich no matter what anyone eles says. And forgods sake, stop sleeping with your son in law.

you are the devil

ok i havent read all the comments because there are heaps but....<br />
well... u shouldnt be ******* ur son in law... no matter how i say that its going to sound bad so there it is, but ur not the only one responsible, u may have had sex with him but he was the one who cheated, if he was willing to cheat with u, an older woman who he was related to through marriage, he would have slept with someone else eventually anyway..<br />
dont have that child, it will rip ur daughters heart out, not only did her husband cheat but with her mother, u cant come back from that and how would the child feel? knowing thats how they came into the world? u would effectively **** up everyones lives, ur own included

ok i havent read all the comments because there are heaps but....<br />
well... u shouldnt be ******* ur son in law... no matter how i say that its going to sound bad so there it is, but ur not the only one responsible, u may have had sex with him but he was the one who cheated, if he was willing to cheat with u, an older woman who he was related to through marriage, he would have slept with someone else eventually anyway..<br />
dont have that child, it will rip ur daughters heart out, not only did her husband cheat but with her mother, u cant come back from that and how would the child feel? knowing thats how they came into the world? u would effectively **** up everyones lives, ur own included

Yes, you are most certainly a monster I'm not going to mince words or placate your feelings on this because you deserve every bit of guilt you feel right now. Not only have you most likely destroyed your daughter's family but you have probaly destroyed any kind of future relationship with your daughter and your grandchildren. You said you found God and that turned your life around, well you looks like you need to go back to the drawing board and try and find your faith again because your going to need it.

I disagree with most of what is written here. As a daughter of a young mother, as a woman and as an aunt I feel violated by this story. To think you crossed so many moral boundaries in your head without a thought for your own daughter! How could you put your own titillation, a desire of the flesh, above the most important element of your daughter's life? You need to get away from her and stay far away until you have had a lot of therapy. If you read this and sit there feeling sorry for yourself you are only wasting more time in this precious life. Go out there and turn it around.

You know what, after reading all this. I don't believe its a true story.

tori u may be right

its ***** so suck it **** it eat it who cares if she is ur mother in law i would tear her **** flap apart .