Affair With Son In Law, Now Pregnant

You know what, after reading all this. I don't believe its a true story.

I disagree with most of what is written here. As a daughter of a young mother, as a woman and as an aunt I feel violated by this story. To think you crossed so many moral boundaries in your head without a thought for your own daughter! How could you put your own titillation, a desire of the flesh, above the most important element of your daughter's life? You need to get away from her and stay far away until you have had a lot of therapy. If you read this and sit there feeling sorry for yourself you are only wasting more time in this precious life. Go out there and turn it around.

Yes, you are most certainly a monster I'm not going to mince words or placate your feelings on this because you deserve every bit of guilt you feel right now. Not only have you most likely destroyed your daughter's family but you have probaly destroyed any kind of future relationship with your daughter and your grandchildren. You said you found God and that turned your life around, well you looks like you need to go back to the drawing board and try and find your faith again because your going to need it.

ok i havent read all the comments because there are heaps but....

well... u shouldnt be ******* ur son in law... no matter how i say that its going to sound bad so there it is, but ur not the only one responsible, u may have had sex with him but he was the one who cheated, if he was willing to cheat with u, an older woman who he was related to through marriage, he would have slept with someone else eventually anyway..

dont have that child, it will rip ur daughters heart out, not only did her husband cheat but with her mother, u cant come back from that and how would the child feel? knowing thats how they came into the world? u would effectively **** up everyones lives, ur own included

ok i havent read all the comments because there are heaps but....

well... u shouldnt be ******* ur son in law... no matter how i say that its going to sound bad so there it is, but ur not the only one responsible, u may have had sex with him but he was the one who cheated, if he was willing to cheat with u, an older woman who he was related to through marriage, he would have slept with someone else eventually anyway..

dont have that child, it will rip ur daughters heart out, not only did her husband cheat but with her mother, u cant come back from that and how would the child feel? knowing thats how they came into the world? u would effectively **** up everyones lives, ur own included

you are the devil

Found God and then had an affair with your daughters huspand while she housed you.....nice. Goodluck with the pregnancy. Its always your choich no matter what anyone eles says. And forgods sake, stop sleeping with your son in law.

its not a monster and you know it,its a baby and if you think it will create so much problems in the household just tell that you have a night stand affair and then you are drunk and then it happen and that was the result and i guess its time to move out so you wont feel bad on your daughter and create more problem to everyone...

Wow. I really hope that story isn't true. If it is, then you are a horrible mother.

you are officially crazy old woman, you should hang yourself and die. that's the only way out.

Put up for adoption or abort. Yes, getting rid of a life is horrible but this is ****** and the baby may have health problems. Also think about how the baby would feel once he/she found out.

Move out of your daughter's house, tell her everything. She deserves to know what type of husband she has.

I cannot believe that so many people have sympathy for you. You put yourself in this situation and you deserve whatever happens to you. Your daughter and grandchildren, on the other hand, are the victims! They invited you into their homes and made you feel welcomed and you repaid them by destroying everything. What you did will forever change who they are and how they love. SHAME ON YOU AND HIM!!!

Yup. Total monster. How dare you! He's not yours. You're a crappy mother. You don't deserve that family. Go hide yourself in shame.

oh baby i would being the father of the child/take and make plans for adoption/ i would not tell your why for it . just whish i could help more hun/just love ya

You are a vile human being. Can not fathom what kind of a sick ***** could sleep with her daughters husband. Your poor daughter. You sound like a prostitute with no morals! Disgusting.

People make mistakes and this is a big one being honest with ur daughter is the best way to start ur path to forgivness and as for her husband if ur not honest then what will happen if he does it again it will crush ur daughter even more. She needs to know what happened and then just give her space. Her husband is also at fault for what happened. Like other people said get prefeesional help or find someone to talk to. This is not something u want to bottle up inside. As for the abortion part well think about this there r millions of families that can love that baby if u decide to give it up. If you are planing on keeping it then my prayers go out to u and wish u the best of luck. Wishing you were dead or thinking about it will only hurt the people around u even more. I have had alot of people comit suicide in the last two years and it is a pain that i would not wish upon anyone. Bad things happen and we make mistakes tell ur daughter and what ever happens from then is in gods hands.

nice if i had a wife.. i wish you to be... so hot mom... love it

OMG!! why do men coment on stuff like this and think its a good thing im 18 years of age and even i know this is wrong if that was my mum with my fanicee i would not let her have anthing to do with my kids shed lose me aer grand children and if you get rid of that child that is sick , it didnt asck to be created you cannont kill that baby just cuse of your stupid action he is just as bad as you but like you said you allways wanted your time with him now that you got it your pregnat to your daghters husban not only is that wrong you are also meant to be her mum mums do not do that you do know you will get caught and she will find out soon and then her and her husband will split and ur grandchildren will have no father and will be from a broken home and they will grow up hateing you so you deserv everthing thats comen to you

The devil is on a path to destroy you, wake up! seek spiritual deliverance or else destruction is surely coming your way.

You aren't a monster, you are just utterly confused. If you keep the baby you have to face the realization that your daughter will find out an so will your grandchildren, and as children that would be traumatizing. If you don't keep the baby that is your decision, and you shouldn't be judged for it. Was it the best decision? No. But it's up to you to fix the situation. Obviously this man is okay with cheating on your daughter, if not with you than it could have been anyone else. Do you want more for your daughter? You honestly should. Just think long and hard about this.

what can i say u are wrong and he is too,tell your daughter what went down and move out now,,,sorry to ear...............

Have the baby or abort but I think you should not tell anyone in your family about the affair. The shame and guilt will not go away, it will be worse since people you love will hate you forever on top of still feeling like crap about yourself. Find a job, move out, get therapy, move on.

your not pregnant. you're menopausal. if you're aged 46-50 chances are... you ain't pregnant

You are sick human being. How could you do that to your daughter? How dare you! You are her mother and she trusted you. For the sake of your future child I hope you give it up for adoption, clearly even in your old age you are not a suitable nor mature enough of a person to take care of a living being. I hope your daughter divorces that scum bag and takes herself and her children as far away from you has possible. You're a monster.

i think monster pretty much covered it. this story blows my mind that a human being could do that to their own child...wow

Sick, sick, sick...this could become a movie on Lifetime!!

You should be talking to your son in law about this.

Such a pathetic made-up story for someone to get attention with!

You found God, really.......where'd you lose him? Horrible, horrible betrayal to your daughter, pathetic!

Dear littlejon63, Yes you made some big mistakes and now you feel alone. My heart goes out to you. I don't have the right answer for you on this, perhaps you should go to God in prayer. I would like to help you if you would except my help. I am not talking abortion, this can be handled in the right way that in years to come no one will look back and have any regrets. respond to this post if you are interested in hearing my idea.