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Affair With Son In Law, Now Pregnant

I have searched all over the web for this situation and I have yet to find anything that remotely correlates.  I lost my job a few months ago and I moved in my eldest daughter and family.  I will admit right here and now that I have always had a crush on her husband and have secretly lusted after him.  I have been divorced for over 15 years and have had very few male companions in my life since then.

When I moved in I took on a motherly type roll in the household and catered to everyone's needs.  My grandchildren, but especially my son in law.  I lusted after him, I seduced him and I entraped him.  One day he was swimming his laps in the pool and I came out in a 2 piece binkini that I purposely selected.  I entered the pool and interrupted his morning routine.  It was from that moment forward that I made my sexuality known to him and faluted myself to him.  A few weeks later we had intercourse for the first time, unprotected with primal lust and passion.  He filled a void that I had been missing for over 15 years.  I felt 25 years old again and gave no thoughts to my daughter or my two grandchildren.

I was not the best mother to begin with, I was pregnant initially at 16 and again at 19.  I was taught that sex was the key to keeping your man happy, which was wrong.  By age 26 I was divorced, alone and competing with my ex-husband who had again married a young bimbo who was now raising my kids.  I experimented with drugs and was very much strung out for 8 years or so until I found god.

The power I held over my son in law was intoxicating.  I was in love with him, we had sex in the pool, in the early hours of the morning trying not to wake anyone and even in his own bed.  At first I was careful and took my pill, but I lapsed on my prescription and missed my period.  I have not told him about this, I haven't told anyone.  I want to abort this baby but I cannot bring myself to this.  I cannot bring myself to admiting the truth to anyone.  I wish I were dead, I wish I had never had these feelings and pushed this issue.  I am pregnant and alone with my daughter's brother or sister inside of me.  I am a monster

littlejon63 littlejon63 46-50 351 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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I'm sorry, but I think you are a selfish woman. And, so is your son-in-law. Neither of you thought of the damage you were doing to others. Perhaps you should just go and never tell anyone what happened. Your daughter and your grand-children would only be devastated. You would be clearing your conscience at their expense. I know you don't want to cause anymore harm. I wish you good luck and ask that you be more careful in your choices.

Honestly, if he cheated on your daughter with YOU, then eventually he would have done it to her with someone else (a cheater is a cheater). But, despite that fact, your daughter more than likely will not see it that way due to the pain she will feel over this and the betrayal by her own mother. I feel very badly for your daughter and grandchildren - you and your son-in-law more than likely just ensured that all 3 of them will require major therapy for quite some time.

I think if fair to say that you experienced some of the greatest, most intense sex of your life. I have no advice on how to handle your pregnancy but, having had very intimate relations with my own mother in law I know the intensity of it and the ultimate joy when it's that good.

tell me what did the innocent baby in your belly do to be senrenced to death? shall it be put to death for your sins? Jesus apparantly already did that. You did something terrible, monstourous,the bolth of you. But you are not a monster. I hope your still not sleeping with the man, if you are, you are not truely sorry. I had an abortion long ago when I was a teenager for what I thought was a good reason and the guilt and shame are still very painful, seems to me you don't need more of that, however you could make a couple who can't have there own child very joyful and happy, make somehing good out of this. Get out of your daughters house! Tell her if you must but either way never be with this man again. That is my advise.

Pardon me I just read the posts and I am sorry that you lost your baby, that is hard regardless of the circumstances of conception for any woman.

Get the baby out. Get yourself another lover. He won't fulfill you in anyway. Do you even love your daugther?

Ceme, befor you recomend to put to death an innocent baby you should know fro previous posts the baby died on its own, im sure the news will make you happy. Again I say im sorry, and I hope things work out for your daughter and her family and you do the right thing for all involved.

I'm sorry for souding to harsh. You're no monster though and I agree with withoutwithin.

You COMPLETELY deserve what's happening to you. I have absolutely NO sympathy for you. I just feel sorry for the unborn child and this daughter that you've betrayed in the worst possible way.<br />
Her husband is also a disgusting bastard.

A monster? No, I don't think so. You made a bad decision, unfortunately, one you will have to live with.<br />
Make an excuse to get away, & get yourself to a women's shelter as far from there as possible. Tell no one. <br />
I feel you must have the child, & if you need to, give him / her up for adoption. You cannot tell you daughter what happened, I feel you would be destroying a family. As for the SIL? Keep him at arm's length, for he is to blame as well.

I think you should come clean. It'll hurt your daughter, yes, but I think she deserves to know what sort of people she has in her life. You and her husband should be ashamed of yourselves, this is totally disgusting behavior and you aren't fit, in my opinion, to raise another child as it sounds to me like you've made bad decisions your entire life and haven't learned a thing. I know you're only human but when you're as old as you are and still can't control yourself, you've crossed the line between making a mistake and just not giving a damn and/or being downright dense.<br />
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Neither of your are trustworthy and this woman might not want people like that polluting the air. Even if you get out, like you should, that guy is still there and if it's not you that he's laying around with, it'll likely be another woman down the road. The trust is broken, even if she doesn't know it yet, and I can't imagine how embarrassing and disgusting it would be for those poor children to know this ever happened, should they ever find out.

dont tell your daughter and abort.<br />
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dont ruin their lives...

dont tell your daughter and abort.<br />
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dont ruin their lives...

dont tell your daughter and abort.<br />
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dont ruin their lives...

dont tell your daughter and abort.<br />
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dont ruin their lives...

I am so naive that I am always amazed by these types of stories. Anything is possible: for good or for nil. I know that in life stuff happens. I am not holier than thou, but I think this is wrong. I understand that you are attracted to your daughter's husband, but he is your daughter's husband. <br />
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I know that I have done things that I am not proud of. I can not judge you. I can judge the actions, and an affair with your son-in-law does not facilitate a happy family and is very selfish. Wow, just wow! I wouldn't even do this to a stranger. <br />
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I think you should tell your daughter, stop the affair, move out. Immediately! Get your own place and your own man to have sex with.

Jerrica! You are amazing. I agree wholeheartedly that this is wrong.<br />
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For the SIL commenting that the sexual experience was intense, I hope your wife found out and has left this situation. You love the sex more than you love her, obviously.

I don't believe the story. <br />
It just has an element that smells fishy to me. <br />
I think it's someone lying looking for attention on the negative side. <br />
Belongs in that guy Springs-something

Okay, I am swallowing my naive words then. I don't believe there is a word to accurately describe these individuals then. Very very despicable and disturbed and void, cruel, narcissist and imbecile. That goes to show that having functioning reproductive systems and using them DOES NOT MAKE A MOTHER OR A FATHER. If she wanted to prey on a lot younger guys, that's sick enough, but her daughters' men???? In some countries she would be CAGED!! I hope I never remotely understand this.

thank you, LH, for your comment but apparently not everyone shares your opinion of me because i don't condone this. watch out ladies. if you don't go for this, you might be accused of being a bitter old prune lol. after all, in the eyes of some people, it was just sex. no need to get all up in arms over it. *rolls eyes* aldabella, love the part about LJ finding god in the son in laws pants! what your mom did to you was pretty lousy too.

Jerrica, Evania, and all other compassionate people with a sense of integrity know that this was not just sex. If the sitution was reversed and their significant others were having just sex with a family member, close friend or stranger, the comments would be completely different. This can not be justified and is very hurtful.

i agree with you but, unfortunately, there is plenty of scum on ep who would be delighted to have their spouse have sex with family, friends, etc and some already do engage in this. beats the hell out of me.

wow this is straight out of a soap opera...<br />
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I'm not sure what to say exactly other then if you found God then this is a pretty damn good time to go to him and pray for some sort of guidance. I'm not here to blame you however, the feeling of loneliness is pretty deep and even the best of us fall. Other then that I can't say much, I'm far too inexperienced to give you advice on what you should do

Hi i read the above story and i realy feel for you. I have a girlfirend and all we think about is sex. Our relationship hardly ever goeas beyond sex and i understand that she has been through alot of faile drelations ships being older than i am thus i understand that the main way she views as being able to hold onto her man or crush is through sex. I really feel for her as is she only knew how much i was willing to take it onto another level and i love her past this she would have any fear of losing me. You are a beautiful smart and compassionate person. Dont listen to what the other fools on this blbog might say you might have made some mistakes in your past my older sister was born when my mom was 18 i know this. i calculated this when i was about 14 but i have never confronted my mother about this coz i love her and i dont care what she has ever done in her past coz she will always be my mom. And i belive that despite the fact that you let your lusts go before your judgement deep down in your heart you love you daughter more than you love yourself and that is all theat matters. I would say that it would be best if it was in your capability to raise the child (if you had the money) that you do so because depite the means that the child would have been consieved through a child is a blessing to this world. You are the mother and you should take respnciblilty and overlook what everybody else is goin to say because it doesnt matter. If you want to change this is the first step. It is going to be painful it is going to be hard but that is the road to redemption its not easy but it is certainly worth it. I feel for you as if you were my own mother. and i hope that i have been of any help. One thing throughout all my challenges in life one person has helped me go through them all. It was at time painful but never the less He always saw me through and i pray that you hold stedfast onto Him. GOD <br />
God bless :-)

I am a child of a totally dysfunctional family in every way shape and form....alcoholism, physical abuse, mental abuse...etc... My parents started having children at 18 or 19. They were completely not suitable parents. They should have not had children to begin with. Prior to me even being conceived, there were major problems in their marriage. <br />
My father constantly cheated on my mom (even when she was pregnant); he was physically abusive toward her, my brother and my sister; he was a drunk; and did not like to work. Their relationship went back and forth, and then they finally got divorced. My dad moved to Florida for five years. He came back to visit my mom, my brother and my sister, who are respectively 7 and 8 years older than me. When he came back for one night, they did the deed, and to their surprise, in 1971, my mom got pregnant with me. Throughout my childhood the abuse persisted to which my mom just turned a blind eye. They omitted some big information from me growing up….they were not married and I thought they were! I only found this out a few years ago. I was very upset, because not only did I have to deal with their **** growing up, I was born in a loveless relationship. <br />
To say the least me, my brother, and sister have paid the price, even into adulthood. I have dealt with depression and seek help with it even now. There were no apologies from my parents to this day. My mom still turns a blind eye, dear-in-the-head-lights look at issues and my dad is still a complete tool. They are ****-ups. The point here is I truly in my heart wish when I was conceived my mom had an abortion. So do yourself a favor, do not tell your daughter, get away from her husband and have an abortion. Forgive yourself, be a good mom, which I believe it is never too late, and I am 37. I also strongly urge you to go into therapy. If you have a therapist and your issues are still there, find a better therapist. I am still pissed because my parents never did the healing they should for themselves and their now adult children.

I'm not even dignifying this with a comment.

I don't get it. You do not live within the bounds of society, so there can be no rational or logical help for you when you operate so selfishly, you have chosen your path. Deal with it. Whether you are looking for pity or condemnation is irrelevant. If you want to be a mom to the child of your son-in-law more than a grandmother or mother to your already existing children, then I am sure that you will do whatever you want, as you always have. No matter what it destroys.

Talk to someone.

I don't normally like to judge but I feel no pity for you; only for your daughter. If this story is true, and you are being honest on your profile you're almost 50. That's old enough to know that what you were doing was selfish and immoral. As a mother, the needs and happiness of your child should be fore-most in your mind but you've potentially destroyed both her marriage and her trust in you.<br />
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I know it takes two to tango, but that doesn't make it any better.<br />
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If you truly care about your daughter's happiness they only thing you can really do is move away. Tell her nothing. If you choose to have the baby - tell her it was because of a one night stand with somebody else.<br />
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It's a rough situation, and deep down I really want your daughter to know what kind of a rat both you and her husband are, but if you're too cowardly to do this then lying is the only way to preserve your relationship.<br />
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And, seriously, grow up.

are you so dirt poor that you cannot afford a *****? if yes,well probably you can afford a piece of an eggplant to stuff your demonic *****..<br />
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....so now you want to be a baby killer huh???<br />
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you are one adulterous and traitor vagina....that is what you are...<br />
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FIX YOUR LIFE OLD VAGINA BIATCH HAG.....you demonic *****....repent to God and get clean before it's too late...<br />
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You don't deserve to be a mother or be a friend of any woman AT ALL............<br />
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You are equal to a DOG sexing ALL PENIS OUT THERE without conscience...<br />
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....YOU ARE NOT HUMAN....AT ALL.....

When I first read your story I was as disgusted as everyone else, however I have read all of the comments posted by people and I think that you've had more than enough abuse to last a life time, so I'm going to be gentle.<br />
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Your were wrong, and for a while you did the worst thing a mother could possibly done, but if you are truely sorry and you have stopped having any kind of sexual relations with your Son-in-law then you can't go through the rest of your life with this guilt, It'll kill you.<br />
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I think that you need to start down the long path of forgiving yourself, it won't be easy and you'll definatly need help but you can't go through the rest of your life with this on your shoulders.<br />
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'Monster' is a strong word and I do not believe that it applies to you, I just think that you acted appallingly, I really am sorry that you lost the baby, that must have been terrible for you. But maybe in the long run it was for the best.<br />
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As for whether or not to tell your daughter, I'm not going to try to give you advice for that. That is an issue for you to decide and noone else.<br />
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I really hope everything works out for you and that you have learnt your lesson and never do anything like this ever again.

you give the word "frienemy" a whole new meaning.

aint that the truth!

You're human dear! I'm not going to deny the fact that this is going to be a tough trail to walk down, but hunny, you are not alone nor did you do this alone. Many others have walked your path. We all make decisions that we later regret. You should just focus on one day at a time. Therapy will tremendously help. Especially one on one with someone. At some point, you many want to tell the man involved what has occured due to both of your actions. This might help, but that's for you to decide. I believe, like any other sin, you'll be forgiven. You need to convince youself of that too so you can continue to live the life you deserve. <br />
Much love and many blessings!!

Hmmm 140 comments and so many of you casting stones. Wonder which of you can stand proud and say you've never sinned ever in your life? While this is an awful situation I don't think this lady came here to get abused by all of you holier than thou's.

she should have kept it to herself then. being judged here or anywhere, that's the chance we all take, that's life. either keep your skeletons in the closet or suck it up and take it. her choice.

without a doubt, i'm sure we've all sinned in one way or another. nobody is perfect by any means. i don't know about anyone else who has commented, but what bothers me most about this story is the fact that she purposely set out to sleep with her son in law, her daughters husband. with all of the men in the world, i think she could have found one not so close to home.

found her own man, thats exactly what she should have done.

"nobody is perfect" IS NOT TRUE.....It is written in the Holy Bible that Job and Noah are sinners too but God sees them as PERFECT. HUMANS.........sorry cancergirl20 you are wrong..... people can be sinners yet PERFECT....READ YOUR BIBLE......

perfect or not, this woman had no business creeping behind her daughter's back. that's the issue to me.

You are not the first woman who has done this. Nor is your son in law the first. Both of you were wrong of course. Ask GOD for forgiveness and sin no more. Just like JESUS said let he who is without sin cast the first stone. You do not have to tell your daughter. She probably knows already. However if it is not spoken it will be easier for her to go on.

Keep the baby. It's not the baby's fault .Get a job and move out. Give you purpose to your new baby. That will keep you motivated and focused.

Its been over a year now. Everyone and their kids has had their opinion, some unsound, but few well thought out. None can really hold any water without really knowing all the personallities involved, and any undisclosed back story(s) to the subject.<br />
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But I'm sure, after 1 year, without a peep from the author, much must have completed and concluded.<br />
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Any follow-up for your audience littlejon?

you are not a monster.It happened on a few moments of losing perspective.It is just unfortunate you missed period.But natural desire cannot be regulated and feel anything is beyond human control.what feelings you have felt were secretly felt by him otherwise nothing could have happened.Dont avoid reality.It is most natural for every Son in law to lust for his Mil&Sil.So just do what is required to get out of trouble and be cool

Wow. I think it's hilarious in a sick way that some people write about God in one sentance, and then say "KILL THE BABY" or "ABORT THE KID" in the next. You must be soooooooooooooo holy and know soooooooooooooo much about God!!! I believe though that if God heard you calling out to kill an unborn child and preaching about him in the next breath he might think you rather ignorant. <br />
Weather we humans choose to believe it or not abortion is a SIN just like many other Sins such as coveting the neighbors husband or wife. Why follow one sin with another, stop sinning. Also for all you baby killers out there little john stated in a previous comment that she had a misscarrige so go find someother pregnant woman to convince to be a baby killer. Sorry I am pro choice and all it's every humans right to choose, God himself gave us that right. But killing a baby wether in the wonb or not is a serious sin!!!!

Oh for goodness sake .... let he/she without sin cast the first stone.<br />
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Yes, it was wrong what she did but she didn't force the man to! If he cheated with her, he could cheat with anyone. She IS NOT the only one who should be held accountable here.<br />
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To NOT tell her daughter would be wrong in my opinion, as if her husbnd has done this once, with someone as tabboo as his wifes mother, I'm sure as s*** he can do it again.<br />
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Yes, her daughter will almost definately hate her, yes, she probably DOES deserve that, but why is no judgement being cast on the man here?<br />
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Could she live her life aborting the child & pretending nothing had happened, not telling her daughter, and leting her daughter continue in a marriage full of lies. Which is worse?<br />
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The poor daughter is the only blameless one in this ... the author of this was left 'punished' already by what she did in that she had an unwanted pregnancy ..... did the husband remain free of any concequences here.<br />
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I hope she was big enough to tell her daughter. If you're big enough to screw your daughters husband, you should be big enough to own up to it and deal with the concequences.<br />
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Sin, God blablabla. It ALWAYS has to come down to religion! Get off your religious moral high horses and give some decent advice and not rub your religious beliefs in others faces.<br />
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I sincerely hope that the right thing was done, whatever that may be.

no one needs to know who the father is just say you had a one niter and have the baby, that child may invent something to save the world ,, or who knows,,,

What was the out come of this?

hopefully she got out of her daughter's life and found a man of her own.

That child does not deserve to die because of your mistake. Your daughter deserves the truth, and you deserve whatever she decides about her and her kids relationship with you. You need to give that baby to a loving family and hope he/she never finds out the circumstances of his/her conception. One can only hope this idiot does not seek custody himself. You are going to need therapy and God to deal with your betrayal and you need to find out why you did it so you don't go on hurting others and you need to pray every day that your daughter can heal from this and maybe by some miracle even acknowledge you as her mother again. There is no other option besides the truth...you were woman enough to sleep with this DB, now be woman enough to deal with the consequences.

90, if you look back over previous comments, she said she had a miscarriage if there was really a pregnancy at all. i wonder if this whole story wasn't a fabrication myself.

I think the best thing to do is not to punish the innocent parties, your daughter needs to know what type of man she is married to. Your feelings should not matter here, she has a right to know.<br />
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Regarding the baby, you should keep it or consider adopting. You said you wanted to feel young again, I reckon with a new baby you will get this opportunity, a new lease of life. <br />
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Do not punish the innocent victims of this terrible situation - honesty is the best policy. What if you decided to keep the affair a secret and one day your son-in law decided to tell your daughter. I would never take that risk, face up to what you have done

i say; get rid of the baby & try to move out of the house. don't say a word to your daughter, instead, help her keep her marriage together

Hey, you already did a lot of nasty stuff in your life, abortion is nothing! Just think of it this way, if you are trying to have a chance to have a more peaceful family life, then you have not much of a choice. You will HAVE to abort the little thing growing inside of you. The reasons?<br />
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Reasons to Have Abortion:<br />
1. You will destroy the family more if everybody finds out about that you've been having an affair within the family. Yes, you will lie, you will be living in lie, but at least the family will have a bit of peace of mind.<br />
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2. Raising the kid means giving it a horrible life. A kid born out of lust, deceit, and dishonor for the family name, what more could ruin a child's psychological mind? It will ask why its family is a wreck, and what will you tell it? Its friends will make fun of it or even harass it. That thing will just be a living poor psychological mess of a creature, tortured everyday by the results of your lustful and deceitful acts.<br />
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3. Damage within the family, some to society. Just imagine, let's say you raised that thing. No matter what happens, there will be negative effects and those effects will be felt harshly by you, by it, by the family, and by the people around each one of you.<br />
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You think you are doing something "good" for once by raising that kid, but that "good" is just a self-satisfying feeling that you need to remove the guilt that you have in your mind. Unfortunately, the results will be far more horrific, the results outweigh this little sense of "good" that you will have for a short time. Soon you will be engulfed by regret, more guilt, and psychological torture by what happens if you were to continue having that kid.<br />
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Do not worry, you can still have a little feeling of satisfaction, with better results. It's not perfect, but if you abort the little thing in your womb, you can act out as if nothing ever happened between you and the man, make up a story of why you were away for some time, and the negative impact to your family and friends will be minimal at worst.<br />
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In Summary....<br />
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Have It VS Abort It<br />
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Raise It:<br />
1. Wreck family<br />
2. Child faces negative results of the situation daily.<br />
3. You are psychologically tortured about your own life.<br />
4. Society will treat you bad, no matter what they say.<br />
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Abort It:<br />
1. Possible chance to save family from being destroyed.<br />
2. If affair is not found out, family will continue living "normally" and might have a chance to improve.<br />
3. Society will not care about you and turn its attention to something/someone else who have revealed themselves to the public as "morally ob<x>jectionable".<br />
4. Your conscience, even if it might not be at peace, will be at better health than what it would have been if you raised the child, wrecked the family, and you get shunned by the world.<br />
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May good fortunes be with you, and please think LOGICALLY, not emotionally!

What is with all of the put it up for adoption bullshit being thrown here. As a population we are already out of control, all we need is another unfit mother to bring another child into the world with her tainted DNA. Abort the child.<br />
On the side of everyone saying how bad the husband is, ever think about how bad the wife is at keeping a man satisfied? <br />
Teach your daughter how to work, abort the parasite growing inside you and move on with your life.

What a *****

Well, you're nothing if not consistent. From what you say, the only person who has ever mattered to you was you. To be fair, your son in law knew what he was doing was wrong too. Now the two of you have destroyed your daughter's life and your grandchildren's lives as they were. That's because things like this never stay a secret. Your daughter probably noticed the extra attention you gave to her husband and just didn't want to believe it could mean what it did. You need to get out of their lives, no matter what you decide about the pregnancy. I'm guessing you felt you were in competition with your daughter sexually. It was completely inappropriate. If you joined the church for forgiveness, then bear in mind that you needed to stop doing the things you needed forgiveness for. It's not a get out of jail free card.

Oh wow I can't believe you found supporters on this. I almost hurt myself laughing at some of the responses about you are not a monster you just made bad choices. No take it from me you ARE a horrible person, he IS a horrible person and you should both be ashamed of yourselves. You've destroyed lives and hurt people all because you were a little wet in your pants. You are scum. He is scum, and I feel terrible for your daughter and her two children. They are the victims in this so all these posts about poor you and him just made bad choices are just a lie. You two deserve the worst to happen to you. Scum.

Perhaps, before anything, or it's too late, you should reflect on your life one more time and walk in front of a moving train. Sack chasing leech with boobs is all you are.

Congratulations...you made it to www.fark.com with this. If I were you, abort that baby, dont say a word or you WILL destroy any relationship you have with your daughter, grandkids and anyone else you care about. Thats just my opinion.

This story is as fake as Pam Anderson's boobs...the only thing missing is an opening line of <br />
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Dear Penthouse, <br />
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I never thought this would happen to me....<br />
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you guys need to get a hobby.....

Yes, you are a monster. You are a vile, filthy *****. You are repugnant to all that is good and decent in this world. The fact that you live and breath the same air as other humans proves that there is not a God, as no loving God would allow something as heinous as you to exist anywhere but the foulest pits of hell. And that bastard in your belly, the spawn of your debauchery will probably be born deformed and retarded. <br />
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Your only recourse at this time is to run, not walk, to the nearest abortion clinic and have them yank that bloodly lump of shame from your wrinkled, desperate and STD infected ****. Tell them to burn the remains, feed the ashes to pigs, then kill the pigs, burn them, and scatter their ashes within the fiery chasm of Mount Doom. <br />
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Then, just to be safe, and to protect the world from being sucked into your putrid hole of despair, you need to have your uterus cut out, and that crusty sarlaac pit between your legs sewn shut. <br />
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May God have mercy on your soul you prune-fed abomination.

Wow, looks like "finding god" really helped.

You are a ******* horrible person, how could you do that to your daughter? Monster is an UNDERSTATEMENT for you. If I were your daughter I would kick you out sever all ties with you and never speak to you again. You just ruined a good marriage becuase of your own selfish god based needs. Guess what god isn't ******* real, hes a fairy tale, a ******* MYTH. You are a product of your own actions, not some fake wizard with a beard in the sky. If there was a hell I'd hope you burned in it, considering there isn't, I would suggest you through yourself off the nearest bridge.

and your a *****?

pics or it didnt happen...

I don't care what your beliefs are, if you're in the first trimester abort that baby. Normally I wouldn't say such a thing but considering what you've done this is the least of your worries and the easiest way to save a lot of future problems.

WHAT THE **** ARE YOU THINKING WOMEN! Get a job, stop being whining , this is America. Go out to clubs or whatever to get laid... not your daughters husband. You should feel bad because ITS WRONG.

you should probably hit that big ol' A button on yourself

You're right, it is a unique experience. I hurt for you. You made a mistake. <br />
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But you have a decision to make - you can start living the rest of your life the right way starting today, making the right decisions. It's the same thing I've had to do since my life fell apart recently. Read my story then contact me if you like - fallenpastor.blogspot.com<br />
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Hang in there, take it a day at a time, and know you're not alone. You're being prayed for. There is a life to be lived and you will find redemption. Don't listen to hatred, don't let people tell you you're horrible, and learn to forgive yourself. Move forward beginning today. Seek help soon, please.

Can you post a picture of yourself? Thanks!!

you are either or troll or really disgusting. kill that baby. dont ruin your family's life over your selfish behavior.

DO NOT TELL YOUR FAMILY ! Take care of it some other way, find someone to adopt him/her or have an abortion, which ever you choose. <br />
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To keep it would present problems for an older woman raising a baby by herself without financial support.

NO CHILD deserves to have you as thier mother! You are unfit. <br />
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YES tell your daughter the least you can do is let her know what a filthy selfish snake her husband is. <br />
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YOU disgust me. If there was such a thing as hell that is where you will go. <br />
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Monster is not a strong enough word to describe you. You show up mooch off your daughter becuase you are too much of a loser to support yourself then F her husband. <br />
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You are her mother! <br />
You are a horrible, horrible, filthy, disgusting, sociopathic, narcissistic, selfish, POS.. <br />
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There is no punishment too severe for what you have done. <br />
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I hope she NEVER speaks to you again. I hope you are dead to her. <br />
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BTW here is a number to a suicide hotline 1-800-784-2433, don't kill yourself

NO CHILD deserves to have you as thier mother! You are unfit. <br />
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YES tell your daughter the least you can do is let her know what a filthy selfish snake her husband is. <br />
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YOU disgust me. If there was such a thing as hell that is where you will go. <br />
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Monster is not a strong enough word to describe you. You show up mooch off your daughter becuase you are too much of a loser to support yourself then F her husband. <br />
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You are her mother! <br />
You are a horrible, horrible, filthy, disgusting, sociopathic, narcissistic, selfish, POS.. <br />
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There is no punishment too severe for what you have done. <br />
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I hope she NEVER speaks to you again. I hope you are dead to her. <br />
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BTW here is a number to a suicide hotline 1-800-784-2433, don't kill yourself

NO CHILD deserves to have you as thier mother! You are unfit. <br />
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YES tell your daughter the least you can do is let her know what a filthy selfish snake her husband is. <br />
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YOU disgust me. If there was such a thing as hell that is where you will go. <br />
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Monster is not a strong enough word to describe you. You show up mooch off your daughter becuase you are too much of a loser to support yourself then F her husband. <br />
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You are her mother! <br />
You are a horrible, horrible, filthy, disgusting, sociopathic, narcissistic, selfish, POS.. <br />
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There is no punishment too severe for what you have done. <br />
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I hope she NEVER speaks to you again. I hope you are dead to her. <br />
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BTW here is a number to a suicide hotline 1-800-784-2433, don't kill yourself

As far as the original poster complaining about the responses. <br />
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Wake up! No one cares about ANYTHING you have to say! <br />
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LOL, you try to judge those for judging. <br />
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Wow, you really take the cake. <br />
You are one sick, delusional worthless waste of air. <br />
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You want to atone you say and posting your crimes and expecting a supportive response to stroke your ego and make you feel all better and that is atoning?<br />
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You don't deserve any respect from anyone. You are twisted and full of wrong. <br />
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Take your lashings what you have done is so horrible it enrages strangers, deal with it. <br />
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The fact you feel entitled to any forum community 'helping' you deal with this is sick in itself. <br />
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You deserved to feel horrible for twice as long as your daughter does. <br />
Your whole life as far as I am concerned.

mistakes do happens in everybody's life.if a person does a mistake 1st time then it can be forgiven,but if a person repeats the same mistake again and again then it is called their habit.<br />
u case is also like this.<br />
u know wht? u r a mother and a mother is the one who look after their child with care and love.since he is Ur daughters husband u must have looked at him as u look at ur son.<br />
the best solution for this is to find a man and marry him but before that confess to him what all happened.in that way u will have a husband and a child.dont tell ur daughter. TRUTH ALWAY WINS HEART.

Your daughter has a right to know. She should be given the choice whether or not to stay with her cheating husband. She should be given the choice whether or not to kick you out of her house.<br />
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I cannot believe so many people are saying that you shouldn't tell her. You need to take responsibility for your actions and so does her husband.

YOu are a FREAKING ***** <br />
WOW everthing you did/do all calculated... and you wrote this cause you proud of it not cause you ashame of it.<br />
IF you ashame you would not post this **** up.<br />
WOW... MORAL standard NO.. NO self-value and What the fudge.!!!!!<br />
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JEzzz woman THE Man is no better than YOU . Tsk tsk ..

I wanna see your face... **** move status

YOU ARE A MONSTER!!!!!!! THATS MESSED UP ANYWAY U LOOK AT IT!!!!!<br />
I don't feel sympathy or anything for you!<br />
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Its a tough spot,and im not trying to be rude.But tell your daughter,and just hope she forgives u,but yes the child will be confused,but dont even think about adoption or abortion,it deserves to live,even though you're an idiot for making a mistake like that,its not the babys fault

You handpicked that bikini. You knew what you were doing. Tell your daughter the type of unfaithful man she married, and GTFO. YOU ARE A HORRIBLE PERSON. Yes, indeed you are a monster. You wrote this with a conscious but have none. You are only seeking some type of sympathy and validation in hopes that someone else may have some similar story, so you can feel at ease. You shouldn't. What you did was downright wrong, provoking infidelity amongst your own blood. You will not find sympathy from me. Please do the right thing and tell your daughter. And leave. You deserve no more hospitality from her. What a horrible, horrible person you are.

Does that make you a falutrix?

This has FAKE written all over it. These seductions seem to happen at a pool , most times. Also, the lady calls herself a BIMBO. People do not call themselves bimbo.

my mums boyfriend did the same thing but he got me pregnant

Humm let's see... daughter opens up her home to you, even though you were never really there for her, made horrid choices in your life and now find yourself in need of a place to live. THEN you go get a bikini and seduce her husband... not once but multiple times. And oops you forgot your pill...Bull you did. He should be ashamed and you should get out of that house as fast as you can pack your bags, off to a home for single pregnant women with you and let some couple with morals adopt this child. DO NOT TELL your daughter, you have created enough distruction without tearing apart a marriage as well. Her husband needs to admit to an affair, but not with HER MOTHER and let them work it out from there. Your your input is not needed, unless the goal was to take over her husband, home and children in the first place. Fat chance he's get those children. Keep in mind YOU were a fling, she is his wife.

i caught my mother in bed with one of my soon to be boyfriends in high school,, she was not the best mother either, and had i not found them in bed together i wouldnt have known to what extent of a horrible mother she is,, i ve gone through hell inside my head with alot of issues i have with her, but anyways by telling her the truth,, it shows alot of effort on your part,u made a mistake and your able to admit it , and thats something my mom couldnt even do, she just acted like it never happened . i mean u just slept with her husband after the fact that she let u stay in her house and welcome u to their family, she deserves that much, and any man that would sleep with their mother in law, tottally has no respect for his wife and no concern for his kids and how this will affect them. protect her from living a lie, the truth will set you free!!!

You are a pig. That is your daughter's husband for chrissakes ! You couldn't find a man of your own... you had to go after your son in-law ? He's no better than you but YOU are her mother. I would not tell your daughter you are pregnant let alone had an affair with her husband. Do you know how devastating this news will be to her ?

damn, and i was accused of being too harsh in my comments lol. looks like other have given LJ more hell than i did, not that i disagree with any of it.

Where do things stand now that your story is more than a year old. And btw, you are not alone, I have posted a similar story xcept pregnancy on my page. Look it up.

What's wrong having a baby with your son in law?<br />
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How erotic would it be when the same young man have a child with your offspring!<br />
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Blame it on one night's stand.<br />
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Even your son in law doesn't have to know.

HON,I SURE FEEL BAD FOR YOU, ALL I CAN SAY IS LET THOSE WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE. IM SURE IF THE GOODY TWO SHOES WOULD HAVE YOU TARED AND FEATHERED THEY WOULD.LIFE IS SHORT IT JUST THINGS HAPPEN YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST IM SURE THAT THIS HAS HAPPENED TO I WOULD GET OUT OF THERE YOU JUST WANT SOMEONE TO CARE ABOUT YOU AND SEX IS HOW YOU EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS FIND A PLACE TO STAY HAVE YOUR BABY IF THATS WHAT YOU WANT THE GIVE IT TO SOMEONE THAT WANT HIM OR HER BUT DONT GIVE UP ON YOURSELF.

to tell your daughter would hurt her, but for her to find out another way would be worse, shell be maddest at her husband anyway

I am in a very similar situation in that my mother-in-law and I am having an affair the wife obviously knows nothing about. I think you should approach your son-in-law and tell him of the situation. At that point the two of you can decide to either have the baby or abort. The advice by ashok6558 above is not a bad idea. Let us know what happens. I'll be sure and show this to my mother-in-law. She is in her early 50's and considers herse;f safe from pregnancy but I think better safe than sorry. I'll be making sure she goes on the pill as neither of us wants to be using condoms, we enjoy the total experience and she says sex isn't complete unless I ejacualte inside her. I'm not about to complain as it gets rid of the need to stop and put a condom on. Looking forward to an update on your status soon

You are an effin RETARD!!!!!