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He Won't Give Up

He was my first love, we were together off and on for 5 years and he cheated, lied, and neglected me. I went through so much heartbreak before I finally hardened my heart towards him. Now for the past couple years he has been desperately trying to get me back. He is really laying on the pressure recently.. He tries to offering me a better life, the exact life I hoped for back when I still wanted things to work with us; and he threatens that he will throw his life away and that he is worried he will slip deeper into depression and addiction if I don't take him back. I am so frustrated. I really do care about him and in some ways we have a real and very deep connection. But at the same time, he is not solving his own problems like he should be and is not mature enough to relate to me on the same level. I don't want a codepedent relationship like that. So I can't take him back, but this is breaking my heart all over again (albeit I am more desensitized to it now)
Oh, and he is saying he is never going to give up. That he KNOWS we are meant to be together so I might as well just give in.
paradoxical paradoxical 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2008

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♥ Wow im in a situation kind of like that, i had been with this guy for 3 maybe 4 years and i really love him i mean i still do but i started talking to this guy, and He freaked out he was like stop talking to him! he is gana tear us apart i just know it . but the thing was we were in an open relationship to being with, not that i was with the other guy but still.. i thought he was over reacting so i thought it would never happened now a month down the road he broke up with me thinking i would stop talking to that guy and then he would ask me back out.. but what he didn't know was the guy had asked me out that night and i didn't want to be alone.. so after that i said yes.. iv been with that guy for maybe 2 years now.. and am so happy.. but i still talk to my ex and he tells me he will never stop trying for me and he knows we are gana be together in the end and all this stuff, its just so sad :[ i also have two other guys doing the same thing.. its very frustrating but i never thought anyone else was in the same boat as me , its super comforting ♥ Love kitty ♥

♥ Wow im in a situation kind of like that, i had been with this guy for 3 maybe 4 years and i really love him i mean i still do but i started talking to this guy, and He freaked out he was like stop talking to him! he is gana tear us apart i just know it . but the thing was we were in an open relationship to being with, not that i was with the other guy but still.. i thought he was over reacting so i thought it would never happened now a month down the road he broke up with me thinking i would stop talking to that guy and then he would ask me back out.. but what he didn't know was the guy had asked me out that night and i didn't want to be alone.. so after that i said yes.. iv been with that guy for maybe 2 years now.. and am so happy.. but i still talk to my ex and he tells me he will never stop trying for me and he knows we are gana be together in the end and all this stuff, its just so sad :[ i also have two other guys doing the same thing.. its very frustrating but i never thought anyone else was in the same boat as me , its super comforting ♥ Love kitty ♥

♥ Wow im in a situation kind of like that, i had been with this guy for 3 maybe 4 years and i really love him i mean i still do but i started talking to this guy, and He freaked out he was like stop talking to him! he is gana tear us apart i just know it . but the thing was we were in an open relationship to being with, not that i was with the other guy but still.. i thought he was over reacting so i thought it would never happened now a month down the road he broke up with me thinking i would stop talking to that guy and then he would ask me back out.. but what he didn't know was the guy had asked me out that night and i didn't want to be alone.. so after that i said yes.. iv been with that guy for maybe 2 years now.. and am so happy.. but i still talk to my ex and he tells me he will never stop trying for me and he knows we are gana be together in the end and all this stuff, its just so sad :[ i also have two other guys doing the same thing.. its very frustrating but i never thought anyone else was in the same boat as me , its super comforting ♥ Love kitty ♥