Love Of My Life

My ex and I broke up 12'years ago. We have been in touch for the last 7 years. I know how he feels, and I know how I feel. Problem is...when we broke up I got married a few years later, but I always know where my heart is I'm tortured by this everyday... my heart hurts
143pocoz 143pocoz
3 Responses Sep 15, 2012

Go to him!!

if you really value your marriage, let him go. and i mean really let him go. stop contacting him and all. an ex is an ex for a reason.

As much as it hurts, it's probably best to stop talking to him, it would be the best for you both. I'm actually in the same predicament where my ex broke up with me about a month ago for the second time (first time we broke up for reasons I was immature, and she had every right to do that, but then I was able to learn from that. The second time was because of our differences, she even let me know that it wasn't because of anything I did wrong). So as hard as it is, I know what you two are going through, and I especially know what he's going through. In my first breakup, I remember it took me a year to get over, and though it may look impossible, it can't keep continuing like that because if you keep talking to him you may end up hurting him, and even hurting yourself. I accept that my ex doesn't talk to me, I want what's best for her, even though it hurts me severely, I have faith that someday I'll get over it and continue being myself ya know? You'll be okay!