My First Time With a Woman

I was on a business trip, on the west coast of the U.S., staying at a nice  hotel. One evening, after a looong day with clients, I was sitting at the bar enjoying a quiet drink and wondering whether I had the energy to go get dinner when an attractive woman a few years older than me (I was about 31 at the time) sat down on the stool next to me.

We got talking, and talking, and talking. Sharing backgrounds (I was recently divorced after 10 years of marriage), etc. We ordered some food at the bar, then it was time to get going. In the elevator up to our rooms she asked me to join her for a night cap. Well, the night cap turned in to spending the night, and I have not looked back, and have not slept with a man since.

didimarjeta didimarjeta 36-40, F 32 Responses Jan 25, 2008

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Thank you for sharing. A beautiful story.


wow how i wish i could come across such a woman

I'm horny! What happened?

Is it wrong that a beautiful woman is Lesbian?????? you know it is an absolutely immoral relationship, but more and more services come out on Internet focusing on this kind of relationship..such as --Lesbianseeking。com . it's the world's first, largest and most trusted dating site for Lesbian.

I am happy for you. I am glad you found what is right for you.<br />
I was molested as a child and have never truly enjoyed sex with a man, have never actually orgasmed during sex, only with oral sex. I wonder if it is me, or if I a realtionship with a man is wrong for me. Your story gives me hope that perhaps there is someone out there that I would be more compatible with.

There have only been two men in my life who could turn sex into an hours-long intimate, emotional experience. My girlfriend could also do this. I NEED hours-long sex. I love my husband so much but our 3 to 5 minute sex leaves me feeling frustrated and empty. I NEED passion. I NEED intimacy. And I NEED hours of sexual play until I am so spent that sleep is the only and final alternative. And it is a delicious deep sleep that can only come from being totally sexually satiated. My girlfriend was capable of this kind of sex. I miss that passion so much.

O my god my girl is so good she gives me three hours of sex and it makes me want her more but iam am up for anything I will even lick ur ***** like its never been licked befor u won't squirt u will gush babes

Will you make me gush??

do what makes you happy. Don't let people judge you.

Hi Lets and Doc,<br />
Are you talking to me? <br />
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The thing that is different is that I was CRAZY about her! I've had so much sex, so much ******* in my life. Sometimes we just need to be ******, it's true. The older I get though, I have become much more aware of my feelings of connectedness and those of others. In my 20's and early 30's I just needed to be ******! By my late 30's I realized sex was meaningless without an emotional connection. I needed the passion and intimacy that being emotionally connected offered. There is just no comparison.<br />
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Do you need more details? I'll answer anything!

Very nice! I truly believe it was a very sensual evening...

Lovely.. i enjoyed reading your story.Funny how one experience can change your life.

Thank you for sharing. I enjoyed reading your experience. I'm so happy for you.<br />
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I discovered very early that I was attracted to girls. I've had a couple of boy friends over the years, but they just never have the same fire and passion that I've experienced with female partners. When the guys are done, so are you. Girls go all night :)

do you still do this with them?

sounds heart felt i wish that could happen to me.

thats awesome!!

ok,,,spill the details sister....c'mon.

How cool! What is soooo different doing it with another woman?

I've been happily married to a wonderful man for many, many years. In my early 20's (we were already married) I started fantasizing about being with a woman. I always talked to him about it as it turned him on. Back then there were no personal ads, internet etc, and I really didn't know how to go about meeting another woman for sex. When I was 30, a male friend brought a lesbian to a weekend sex foursome. My first experience with her was very exciting, I had a million different feelings coursing through my mind and genitals! Over the years I had many opportunities to have sex with women, but none were intimate, I needed and was missing a feeling of being deeply connected.<br />
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A couple of years ago I met a woman who instantly turned me on. She showed me a picture of her boyfriend, but that didn't deter me from being completely fascinated by her. She started inviting me over once a week, then more often, broke up with the boyfriend, then finally one night we ended up in her bed making love for hours! I told my husband and he was totally cool with it.<br />
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We had some ups and downs along the way, but there is a 20 year age difference between us (she is younger), but two years later we have an awesome relationship. I would never leave my husband, but feel so fortunate to experience a woman's love and sex, which is just so exciting and fulfilling to me.

i mean...NO DETAIL?

i dnt get it

that sounds amazing

Hi there congratulations on that experience and all the ones since. That is a beautiful story. I am glad you found your calling. Have fun and enjoy. LOVE Samantha

oh what a wonderful story

Sigh, I wish I had that right now

Sigh! I've read this before but wanted to reread it. That was a sigh of happiness for you and your wonderful evening. How sweet and good.

That's great! Glad it worked out for you. :-)

thats amazing, she must have been quite a lover..!

I hope my first time just happens naturally...

Is that how it will happen? Or should I make this kind of experience?

It's different for everybody so it just depends on you

great how things just happen... :-)