the Joining of Everything

They say that sex is wonderful with someone you love, as if that's the cure-all secret to it. Well, I've had sex with people whom I loved very much at the time, and it's definitely no cure-all. It didn't compare to this.

The first time I had sex with this particular person, it was already good. We weren't in love, but we had amazing chemistry. We were of similar minds. It was as if he knew what I wanted, without my even asking.

After we both admitted that we loved each other, we had the most physically and emotionally gratifying sex of my life. It doesn't seem to be getting any worse, either.

Love isn't a magical maker of good sex, by itself, but when you let it, it takes it to new heights.
morebetter morebetter
26-30, F
1 Response Nov 26, 2006

I am in my forties and for the first time I am completely consumed by love. I love her with every part of my being. The physical is almost incidental. Sex is intoxicating, because of the joy we share. I feel drunk with love when I'm away from her. I cannot imagine my life without her. I never knew loving a woman would be like this.